How to bring this up?

[EvilEvilKitten]

A lot of people have very odd ideas regarding sex - if they'd just rid themselves of them - we would all have a much better time.

You have to do what your partner wants.
PIFFLE! You negotiate. You take turns. You play fairly.
You DON'T push limits; you invite a change of mind.
Treat others as you want to be treated - in and out of the bedroom.

Life really is that simple.

[bestyet]

Your probably right men like to be beaten up, sexually that is of course and sexually forward women must be an interesting proposition, why have i missed out,still not had the full works yet!!

[sheismyoasis]

Fire10000,
My wife had no prob giving me oral sex, but she had a prob swallow. I never pressured her to do it, but one day after waking up in the morning, i told her i dremt she swallowed my cum. (i actually did). She called me dirty! but come next day I was the happiest guy in the world. I think what did it was that I suggested it without the pressure. I planted the seed it and grew into action. That what you have to do, plant the idea, without pressure and hope for the best! be patient-she'll do it

[EvilEvilKitten]

That's the "invite" I mentioned. You invite but you cannot demand.

[luvyhubby]

Originally Posted by sheismyoasis

Fire10000,
My wife had no prob giving me oral sex, but she had a prob swallow. I never pressured her to do it, but one day after waking up in the morning, i told her i dremt she swallowed my cum. (i actually did). She called me dirty! but come next day I was the happiest guy in the world. I think what did it was that I suggested it without the pressure. I planted the seed it and grew into action. That what you have to do, plant the idea, without pressure and hope for the best! be patient-she'll do it

I whispered I would like to try anal sometime during love making. She said something like , oh no. Next session she wouldn't face me. Finally I figured out she was offering me anal. Yes, I am that slow. We didn't get into full penetration but it was good and opened the door for further attempts.