Passive Wife

[salmanzk]

My wife avoids sex . How do I stimulate for sex or maker her comfortable for sex?

[EvilEvilKitten]

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[EvilEvilKitten]

First - you have to TALK WITH HER about this issue.

Is there a medical issue?
Was she 'circumcized'?
Has she ever been abused?
Is she tired, over-worked, stressed?
Does she like you at all?
Does she enjoy sex with you?
Has she ever orgasmed?

IF you CAN'T answer any of the above, then YOU need to get to know your wife.

[dancingdoc2]

> Does she enjoy sex with you?

Are you a loving, caring, compassionate, knowledgeable, skilled, lover? Are you, or do you just think you are?

Are there issues or problems within the relationship? As the ol' adage says: "If a relationship is on track and satisfying to both, sex is ten percent of the reason. If the relationship has problems, sex is ninety percent of the cause."

Please read the articles listed in the Index in order to double check you knowledge and skills. After talking to your wife and learning what problems may be bothering her, ask her to read the articles. The articles are there for a reason--the same reason this site exists--to help enlighten and educate.

If you wife is unwilling to have a discussion with you about why there is no romance or sex, then I recommend marriage counseling. If she refuses, you have two options.