can someone give me an opion

[kmccarty]

Well my wife and myself have been going through a rough patch (the last 18months). Now I don't know if I can trust her anymore because i keep finding out that she is still talking to several of her ex after i go to work (11p-7a) and to one of them she clearly states " I luv u " from her first. Now just to let you know the ex-bf live Ga. and we live in Oh. and we just our forth baby in Sept. I am really trying to clean up my act by its hard for me to believe she is when i find different phone#s in the caller i.d. ,stumble across emails they say "Call me after he goes to work",and the worst of it all runs to a different room when she is on the phone. Is this mental problems on my part or is she still on the that dumb crap?????

[amy_simcott]

This is very hard to read - please check spelling and grammer hun

[Brandye]

You two need to see either a. a counselor, or, b. an attorney.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Okay she's just delivered her 4th child, her hormones are changing, and she's doing idiotic high school things. Sounds like post-partum depression to me! If there are additional pressures, like lack of sufficient money, adding stress then yeah - this is something you two need to seek medical help with.

Yes, you should take this seriously, not because she's done something bad, but because she's SENDING OUT A CLEAR SIGNAL SAYING HELP!!

Time for you to step-up, buddy and get her to the doctors, and both of you to the counselors and the financial advisors.