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[Danzgrl4eva]

thanks I decided to delete this but I thank you for the advice.

[dancingdoc2]

This is a case where it is both impossible and imprudent to "diagnose" over the internet.

My recommendation is to get thee into counseling. I suggest a psychiatrist, first, just in case medication is in order. Second, talk to a marriage and family therapist.

[Danzgrl4eva]

Thanks, I am under psychiatric care and on Wellbutrin it has HELPED so much! I asked him about marriage counceling he is just afraid that bringing up the past will make us upset and set us back, things are going so well now. He told me its MY call.

[sera300]

Trusting one again, regardless of the reasons of not being 100% open, takes time & dedication. It's just not given out or handed out in any relationship much less a marriage, there are no time frames.

You need marriage counseling since if you don't settle your marital differences; you will inevitably end them with a divorce attorney. To have a good marriage you have to go through the good & bad as a couple.

Now, since you are in counseling & on meds this is all the reason more you should be in marriage counseling as a couple. There is much you need to understand about each other and much to work on.

Good luck to you...as you feel taking the meds changed your life [& his as well] the same is true for the marriage counselor. Best of luck to you both...I wish you happiness.

If its your "call" to see the therapist...get on the phone and make the phone call.

[Danzgrl4eva]

Thank you so much, I am going to do just that! I appreciate the replies!