Dating sites while in a relationship

[amy_simcott]

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[sweetnothings]

Hard to say. Some of those website history pages keep for a long time so he may have been looking at those sites months ago or more.

[sera300]

No...I would not worry. Men like to look & check out what's out there. And what's the big deal w/this? If a guy walks down the road past you; do you not check him out?

Furthermore, it's not as if he is scanning the net while you are in bed waiting for him.

[amy_simcott]

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[Gorgeous Mistake]

Personally I'd comfront him about it and ask why he's looking at them when his horny match is right here.

[Jonathan_Philips]

Chances are he was just checking-out what is out there. Those kind of sites regularly advertise all over the net and he might have decided to take a look for the hell of it, but I do think GM has a point and you are well within your rights to question him.

[amy_simcott]

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[Jonathan_Philips]

Originally Posted by amy_simcott

Well Iv already had one issue - where I had found something on his phone and got the wrong idea (wasnt snooping, was looking for a video he had of us) so I dont want it to seem that way again.

It's a tough one isn't it: you don't want to come across as a snoop, but you have spotted a few clues that suggest he is keeping something from you.

It would bother any of us if we were in your position. The way I see it you have three options: ignore it, confront him or snoop some more.

Good luck!

[amy_simcott]

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[Gorgeous Mistake]

Originally Posted by amy_simcott

Well Iv already had one issue - where I had found something on his phone and got the wrong idea (wasnt snooping, was looking for a video he had of us) so I dont want it to seem that way again.

Well don't go around cussing at him about it when he hasn't explained yet.

Just a simple question, then he gives his explanation, then here comes the part where you get pissed off or say "oh ok" then move on.

I don't know if this is wrong or not, I don't really care either way. I always confront my boyfriends about anything that bothers me and if I overreact about something then I just say "sorry I misunderstood you."