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[Densextips101]

Good day

(nervous chuckle)

I am rather new to sex / love making.
I find it is a big tturn on for me, when my bottom is squeezed/carressed/ pulled.

I thought is this me thinking whatever. How many other men find this a turn on. I think its a very intimate experience which only lovers do in a loving worship way? I dont think casual sex couples do this. IE porn she never rubbs his bottom?? She does mine.

Bear with me please I am a learner

[dlb]

It is quite normal for anyone, male or female, to be turned on by having his/her bottom touched in any variety of ways. The buttocks are an erogenous zone.

I do not watch much porn and when I do it is not mainstream porn, but what I have seen of mainstream leads me to believe that it does not usually depict fine details. Probably bottom squeezing/pinching/rubbing/etc. is not much of a visual turn on for most porn watchers.

It can happen during casual sex, but it is true that it is also an expression of deep affection.

[sera300]

In real life it does/can happen. Porn? Is not real life. No, you are not odd for enjoying the touch!

[dancingdoc2]

A person's skin is his/her largest sex organ.

A great lover will learn how to kiss, caress, titillate, and massage it to the fullest. Learn where your partner's erogenous zones are and where their hot spots are, and, how to pleasure them. If you are the partner, give feedback on how she/he is doing and for what you like.

[Densextips101]

Hi

Thanks for the words of wisdom, I dont watch or support porn! Just I am a investigator, so I notice lots. I am Just a new wedd, so we are learning. My younger friends, dont really know what sex is, they look at it as pyshical pleasure.

But the touch is from the heart rather than the wildness, Wild sex is one thing, but that love making is far better that the swinging style. Each man to his own.
My wife and I are both prudes, but never to shy to Learn.

enjoy :0)

[dancingdoc2]

I like your insight. The two of you are on the correct path.

Please look at the Index and read all of the articles listed in it.
--BEGIN HERE--w/a Partial INDEX of Sex Info 101 Sex Ed. Topics

There is a lot of information to help. In addition, go to the site's Home Page and look at the illustrated animated sexual position and additional articles.

A great sex life begins with friendship and being in love. It encompasses lust, love, Quickies, and long drawn out sex. What is sex? As you've stated, it can be that of enjoying the physical pleasures, yet as so many young people have not yet learned, it is also much to do about the emotional and melding of the psyches.

Intercourse is great, yet its greatest benefit is to bring the two psyches together. It feels great yet good foreplay with oral and a hand job usually do provide more intense pleasure.

Got questions?