My husband enjoys anal penetration, but won't share it with me.

[sarah_rsl]

Couples should be careful with trying sexual acts that might have consequances for their relationship. Your husband might enjoy being penetrated anally but that doesn't mean he wants to jump to his wife shagging him with a strap on.

Just because something might feel good isn't a good enough reason by itself to do it.This isn't some casual bf this is your husband. You should ask yourself honestly how appropriate it would be and then if you're happy, gradually start progressing towards it.

[shaved bi]

My wife often uses a dildo in my ass and it feels great, I also use it on her. When it rubes my prostate I really get turned on!

[SweetNSexy]

Originally Posted by intheend1969

My husband enjoys anal penetration, but won't share it with me. I have offered too wear a harness and dildo for him. No response. I asked if he would enjoy that. His response...maybe. I know he uses a dildo on himself, in private. I also know he enjoys watching shemale videos. Am I missing something here?

My husband is not into Shemales but enjoys being pegged. Here is my story:

So I have been married to my husband for about twenty years now. I was hesitant to try anal sex with him and for twelve years we both missed out on something extremely special.
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From time to time, my husband would try playing with my anus while giving me oral sex and I always stopped him. He would also try to play with my anus when we did reverse cowgirl.
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One day, I was close to having an orgasm from cunnilingus and he started again massaging my anus. I'm not the easiest one to please and it is often times difficult for me to have an "O". So instead of stopping him, I went along with it. The psychological affect it had me was a little overwhelming and being on the brink of an "O", pushed me over the edge. My legs wouldn't stop trembling for about five minutes!
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I didn't tell him though, I felt ashamed. It took five or six months for him to try it again and it had a similar affect! I couldn't hide it any more... I told him I enjoyed it. We incorporated anal stimulation into our sex life and eventually tried anal sex. The anal sex took awhile for me to get use to, I believe 4-8 love making sessions, but once I was accustomed to relaxing - it FELT GREAT!
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One day we were watching Weeds and an episode came on where a woman used a strap-on on her boyfriend. I got so excited at the idea! However, I knew my husband would NEVER go for it.. So I started reading online message boards, web sites, etc. The term they use to describe that sexual act is "Pegging".
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So I copied what my husband had done for me. I slowly brought him up to an orgasm through oral sex and would back off. Then slowly bring him back up, then back off. Then I started massaging his anus and gave him an orgasm. After two months of giving him mind blowing orgasms, he finally told me he enjoyed anal stimulation!!!!
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It took about three years of massages, fingers, prostate massages, and small vibrators to finally convince him to try "Pegging". He loves it now and so do I. He admitted to me that he feels so vulnerable in that position, but feels more intimate that we share this type of love making.
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Men stay open minded.

[sc_rebel14]

After some searching, I told my wife that I wanted to try it. I bought a small strap-on for her, and some good lube. It was strange at first, but I have to tell you, the orgasm from it was undescribable. I was glad that I finally told her about it.