Sexually starved & neglected

[bkwrmz7]

The suggestion of saying "Just say look, I need you to be completely honest to me. Why is it that we dont have sex as much. I love having sex with you but it seems like for the past (x months) we have not been doing it as often. Whether it be something about me, or something about you, I want to know what it is that is driving you away from me physically."
is great & I plan on using it, however, I am about 98% sure he's going to say the same thing he says everytime I bring this up, he's just tired. He won't see a dr. He says he's just exhausted. It pisses me off, becuz he continually gets the new penthouse letters & still masturbates, how often I don't know, but we haven't had sex in over 3 months and I'm dying!!
We've been together almost 8 years, and this is pretty much our only problem. There's got to be a way around it. But he's stubborn. What can I do? I miss being with him physically so much!

[Brandye]

Sex problems are often sympomatic of other issues in the marriage. Get the two of you to a counselor.

[smallestoftheclan]

disconnect the cable where it comes into the house, no tv for the night.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Are you married to this man?

Why are you still with him?

Please see my answer to you in your other post on this topic.

[Reload007]

Sex has gone stall in my household too! Really not sure what to do. She uses the same reasons! When we do it she onlygets off by the vibrator.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Reload007

Sex has gone stall in my household too! Really not sure what to do. She uses the same reasons! When we do it she onlygets off by the vibrator.

You have to talk & find out whats happening. How is this different than the past? Was she ever a "wild woman" in bed? Did she enjoy sex before? Do you have kids? Job stress? Medications? Marital issues?

[luvpussy]

[QUOTE=Reload007;226621]just kind a qurious do you go down on her ? i mean gotta stay for more than a couple of licks .you no like do the deed for a while

[TnL329]

Next time he pulls out the hustler letters and starts masturbating, go grab him and suck his dick. Do his deed for him. Maybe that will get him in a mood!

[EvilEvilKitten]

If you're not married to him - DITCH HIM. If you are married to him - counseling or divorce - his choice.

and

MAKE IT STICK!

[nuttychick]

Originally Posted by TnL329

Next time he pulls out the hustler letters and starts masturbating, go grab him and suck his dick. Do his deed for him. Maybe that will get him in a mood!

hmmm now I wouldnt do that.. the guy seems selfish....Not worth giving away a good blowjob to I would pull out a massive vibrator
and proceed to pleasure myself in front of him whilst ignoring him... maybe he might get turned on and try to join in....at this point id tell him to bugger off lol