looking for online "couples" friendships

[madeye]

Me and my girlfriend had the idea that It would be fun to have webcam meetups with couples.

We just love discussing our sex life and fetishes and seems like the webcam is a good opportunity to do so.
We have no expectations of nudity or on camera sex, we would not promise that we would or wouldn't do those things. Just want to drink some whine chat and laugh, and then what ever more or less happens beyond that is entirely spontaneus and un-scripted.

We feel a little timid and weary about this, but our curiosity and try everything once mentality is winning us over

Has anyone tried this or thought about this?

[constantlylearning]

NO experience (not sure exactly what you are talking about) but I would think
what you are looking for or asking about would be difficult if not impossible to find.
Are you wanting to post your experiences or something online or in a forum like
this?

[sera300]

Why not join a group in person, both of you? I know EEK talks about local swinging groups, I'm sure you can find something similar which suits both of you. Meanwhile, you are meeting face to face & not broadcasting "personal" information on the Internet.

I know that many cops do monitor all this stuff and keep much for their personal use & pass it on to their buddy's. I am certain those who are "hacking" experts can do the same.

It was once said to me; "don't think your personal email cannot be read by those in power". Not that there is anything to see in mine; however, all my financials are kept on a computer which has never been on-line.

Just be careful, what you do on-line is public information.

[madeye]

A swingers group is past her comfort level. Even while understanding that you don't have to swap at a swingers club she is still not comfortable being around strangers trying to discuss/explore sexuality.

We just think it would be cool to have couple friends that you can discuss sex openly and candidly, adding the security of never meeting in person adds to comfort/possibility of living out some voyeuristic fantasies

[sera300]

Originally Posted by madeye

A swingers group is past her comfort level. Even while understanding that you don't have to swap at a swingers club she is still not comfortable being around strangers trying to discuss/explore sexuality.

We just think it would be cool to have couple friends that you can discuss sex openly and candidly, adding the security of never meeting in person adds to comfort/possibility of living out some voyeuristic fantasies

Okay, understood. Try here: http://community.livejournal.com/voyeurism/profile

[constantlylearning]

Again, I would highly doubt there are many takers in this realm.......Not sure
stuff like that actually transpires in reality.

[madeye]

Originally Posted by constantlylearning

Again, I would highly doubt there are many takers in this realm.......Not sure
stuff like that actually transpires in reality.

Why not?

It sounds like a lot of fun, chat about sex and maybe end up fooling around on cam. Being watched and/or watching... sounds hot to me.

[constantlylearning]

I was simply giving my opinion.............Enjoy yourself.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Oh please! Your local swing group holds mild get-to-know-eachother parties in public places just to dance and chat. It is NOT a some wild sexfest. No one's going to do more than talk to you, introduce you around to others, and make small talk exploring what you know, want, expect, like, and to answer any questions you might have. No one's going to pressure you to do anything.

Please note that this is NOT going to a swing club - which is entirely different.

BTW it is "My gf and I" - you always put the other person first. That way you don't sound like a total lout.

[madeye]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Oh please! Your local swing group holds mild get-to-know-eachother parties in public places just to dance and chat. It is NOT a some wild sexfest. No one's going to do more than talk to you, introduce you around to others, and make small talk exploring what you know, want, expect, like, and to answer any questions you might have. No one's going to pressure you to do anything.

Please note that this is NOT going to a swing club - which is entirely different.

BTW it is "My gf and I" - you always put the other person first. That way you don't sound like a total lout.

Yeah grammar is not a strength. It is embarrassing, but it does not really affect my career. Sorry it annoys you.

Im completely aware of the casual "Non-Swap" spectrum of swinger meet ups. She would still would not be interested.

Oh well