need help

[angelraye]

i have been with my boyfriend for almost six years and we have a beautiful baby girl. the thing is either hes to tired or im to busy to have sex and things are getting bad. he informed me tonight that he wants things to go back to like they where when we were in high school where we couldnt keep our hands off each other. He also expects me to initate it. he is the only person i have had sex with and were both still learning. I dont know what to do anymore. i need help learning new stuff

[EvilEvilKitten]

Uh-huh, trying it again are you?

[angelraye]

this was posted the same time as the last one just in another forum

[goof'schik]

good then I'll tell you again to go to class. I've been out of high school for 29 years, what I learned about high school boys I forgot.
How about this, buy a smaller bed.

[goof'schik]

I don't think anywhere in here have we said you are a lousy mother, I'm sure you love your little girl very much. As a mother your priorities changed from him being your #1 to her, he can get up and get what he wants, she can't. Where are YOU? From what I read it's him or us (and I think that is more him than you). What do you want? Why are you so hell bent about not getting married sooner rather than later? This is NOT just for your daughter it's for you too. He can put you on his insurance, i don't see why the union wants a blood test. He's listed as the father on the birth certificate who are they to question.
Once this wedding has taken place I think both of you, ok all three of you, will
be more relaxed, brides freek, and your sex life will improve.
If you need help with techniques, scroll thru the pictures of the different positions, they will give you some good starting points. Or just tell him that you just can't be the one to start but you'll be there at the end.
CHILL

[angelraye]

what do i want.... i want to marry him like i have since i was 17. after a yr of dating i knew i wanted to marry him. its getting him to marry me.

Originally Posted by goof'schik

I don't think anywhere in here have we said you are a lousy mother, I'm sure you love your little girl very much. As a mother your priorities changed from him being your #1 to her, he can get up and get what he wants, she can't. Where are YOU? From what I read it's him or us (and I think that is more him than you). What do you want? Why are you so hell bent about not getting married sooner rather than later? This is NOT just for your daughter it's for you too. He can put you on his insurance, i don't see why the union wants a blood test. He's listed as the father on the birth certificate who are they to question.
Once this wedding has taken place I think both of you, ok all three of you, will
be more relaxed, brides freek, and your sex life will improve.
If you need help with techniques, scroll thru the pictures of the different positions, they will give you some good starting points. Or just tell him that you just can't be the one to start but you'll be there at the end.
CHILL

[enjoyable]

My opinion is that - doesn't matter how long you know your partner, how many kids you guys have together, how busy or tire you (or him) are! There always time and space to pleasure each other. I and my wife, we both work, we both tired at the end of the day! But everytime I come home, see my wife smile, see her standing there cooking, I could not resist but run over and starting feeling her up and down, kissing her neck, and have pleasurable sex! Sometimes, the baby might get in the way, but try to schedule it so that you can have sometimes alone.

For the ladies, if you want to please your man. Don't be afraid to take extra step. Give him oral pleasure. Rub it private part when you are sitting next to him on a couch, dining table, or wherever! If you give it, he'll sure returning it! Before you even know it, another baby will arrive (just kidding). Make sure you on top of your contraceptive if you not plan to have another child soon!

My personnally, I love it when my wife sucks me dry after I cum. That feeling is unreplaceable!!!


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[EvilEvilKitten]

"My ambition in is life is to marry X."

Ooookay. In that case, congrats. Your life's work is done.

[angelraye]

actually my ambition in liufe is to run my own day care. which im working on. i never once said that all i wanted to do in my life was marry him. i have goals for my future.

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

"My ambition in is life is to marry X."

Ooookay. In that case, congrats. Your life's work is done.

[GenderBent]

In all honesty, it sounds to me as if he needs to grow up some more. I can understand his wanting you to initiate some but not all the time. It takes two, always remember that and if he doesn't want to give as much as he gets then maybe you are growing in different directions. My first wife and i were like that sort of except she never got over being the center of a guy's desire full on all the time. While i was young enough to appreciate that at the time, i did have a problem with her lack of defining clearly which guy was directing that attention.