always better when on the outside

[djkdee]

why does it seem the sex is enjoyable when one cheats, most of my mates tell me, and i recently found it very much enjoyable, is it the fear that drives the passion

[EvilEvilKitten]

Nope! This illict love affair is fresh new exciting exploratory - nothing at all fearful about that!

But it also means that you're missing out on a deepening sexual relationship at home. Because as you two change and evolve so does your relationship and so does the sex.

But if you're off after the new, you won't see that happening until it is too late and she's long gone.

Forget cheating and start paying attention at home or entering the Lifestyle with her which might be the best of both worlds.

[constantlylearning]

The original post is a very interesting question.........what about "it" makes
more exciting giving those parameters?

[djkdee]

Originally Posted by constantlylearning

The original post is a very interesting question.........what about "it" makes
more exciting giving those parameters?

Would i be wrong to say that by nature, humans tend to thrive on the forbidden,the zeal to want to go to the unknown.that has alwys driven mankind to great hights, and i do not think when it comes to wanting someone other than your partner it becomes an exception

[EvilEvilKitten]

djk - it is all in the difference between infatuation and love.

[Palm Tree Knight]

When you discuss cheating, you must look beyond the exhileration and adventure of it and look at it in terms of what the aftermath will be. Are you married? Do you have children? Are youready for the heart break it will cause. You have to count all the costs. If you cheat in relationships before your married you will more than likely cheat in marriage and then the stakes are higher. Say good bye to homes, businesses and more.

[goof'schik]

and the respect of others, something you lose. i do not think that anyone that cheats, be in on a test, their taxes or a loved one keeps the respect someone may have on them. and coming home and facing those you have cheated on cannot be fun.

in today's world with all the knowledge we are provided with to prevent a std, they still exist. i remember the quote, when you sleep with someone you are sleeping with everyone they have ever slept with, and they are sleeping with everyone that you have.

[Buck Naked]

I have no desire to cheat on my wife. The fact is that the only fantasies I have involve her.