maybe Im a prude..

[Newwife]

Originally Posted by sarah_rsl

Men these days have an obsession with anal sex which I think the porn industry has a lot to answer for.

But there's a difference between anal sex and a man touching your bum, which to be honest I don't really have a problem with. However my rule is that if they do finger me there they can't touch me vaginally, which usually discourages it. The shower is actually the best place to do it.

I agree with all you have said.

I also dont think that it is anything homosexual for a husband to want and enjoy anal sex.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Hence my saying "don't ask for anal sex until after you have personally received anal sex".

[sarah_rsl]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Hence my saying "don't ask for anal sex until after you have personally received anal sex".

I never had a problem with guys asking for anal sex, it feels good for them so it's natural. What I've never bought into though is the way the idea that it's a completly normal type of sex and you're being prudish if you're not up for having your bum turn into the channel tunnel.

Saying that I've done it on a few occassions, it wasn't unpleasant as such but neither did i particularly enjoy it. I offered to do it for a ex bf just cause I felt like doing something for him.

Anywho there's plenty of advice on the net if women want to do it

[EvilEvilKitten]

Actually sarah RECEIVING anal sex would feel even BETTER for him than giving it! Men have their P-Spot on the anterior side of their prostate gland which when stimulated by receiving anal sex makes their orgasms more mind-blowing than anything else. His P-Spot is analogous to a woman's G-Spot. So you see. You have been doing anal all wrong. LOL Women should GIVE it not take it.