06-10-2008, 08:11 PM
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Lost, please help!
This is a very complicated story. Well about a year ago I was dating this marine and we were so in love and he was about to leave for Iraq. We talked about me waiting for him but never went into detail. One day 3 weeks before his deployment I never heard from him again. For months I was stuck on him, I prayed that somehow he would call me or email me, write me (he didnt have my address) anything. Everyone told me he was only using me before he left, but they didnt know him like I did and I refused to believe them. Well eventually I let another guy in who also happens to be a marine. We fell for each other immediately and one day he asked me to marry him and 4 days later we were married. Now, 9 months after the first marine left for deployment, he's back and I spoke with him yesterday. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to do was to tell him I'm married and he said he didnt know whether to laugh or cry, he cried. He thought I was waiting this whole time. Turns out that his phone was cut off before he left for Iraq and he couldnt even say goodbye to his mother. So now I'm stuck in the worst possible situation imaginable and have no idea what to do. I feel terrible because I still have feelings for him but I love my husband and they are both incredible men, I cant say anything bad about either.
So I guess what I'm asking is how do I handle this? 
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06-10-2008, 08:19 PM
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are there no pay phones in your area? unless for some reason there aren't any and he had absolutely no friends or neighbors whose phone he could borrow, then someone who is about to be deployed wouldn't let something as silly as his phone cut off stop him from contacting people that matter to him. if staying together truly mattered to him, he would've found a way.
move on and be happy with your husband.
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06-10-2008, 08:40 PM
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Didnt know wheter to laugh or cry?!? WTF kind of response is that? There are tons of ways to get ahold of people. I mean there was teh lady who watched her son graduate through a satellite phone and tv. He could have called you or even written a friend to get your address if it mattered that much.
Just drop him. your friends were probably right, he was just using you. I know my friend went out with a girl, just to get in her pants before he left for bootcamp. It sounds terirble, but she was also using him cuz she hated her mom and her mom couldnt stand people in the military (hardcore anti war person) so it worked out for both lol. Just be happy with your husband. Live your life with him and have a ton of sex...like enough sex to make up for all those couples who dont have sex lol.
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06-10-2008, 09:03 PM
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You are both so right! I asked him those questions too and some how they got shoved aside, he's good at that.
I really do love my husband and I think its not that I still have feelings for the other guy, its that I used to love him and it was all taken away so fast out of the blue and I'm just thinking of what we used to have.
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06-11-2008, 12:22 AM
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Pay phones are now on the shelf with record changers and Polaroid cameras.
I agree, if he had wanted to contact you there are neighbors with phones, friends with cell phones, and probably a stranger on the street would lend you a phone. Sounds fishy to me that he can't even phone home.
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06-11-2008, 01:32 PM
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You are married & love your spouse. End of story--no excuses. Even those Marines in Iraq can get a message relayed via CW & Amateur Radio to home in the US, etc. Any Ham radio operator would do it; much less try to find a phone to make a call.
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06-11-2008, 05:12 PM
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I'm sorry, but I gotta say.....'so in love' but he didn't have your ADDRESS????? BS And there's no way he had absolutely zero chance in 9 whole months to get a hold of ANYONE back home that could get word to you.
Move him to your 'guys i used to know' column and live happily ever after with your hubby.
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06-11-2008, 05:29 PM
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Int1103, that pretty much sums things up don't you think..........LOL
I am still laughing. That was good you should perhaps do standup.
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06-12-2008, 06:02 AM
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