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Old 05-07-2008, 08:09 AM
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I feel so bad...

Me and my girlfriend are doing great right now, almost been together for 3 1/2 years. I just moved out of my parents place and got a great job coming up. We havn't fought nearly as much as we used to... Here's the situation, we still have sex regurarly (once or so a week) but for some reason now I want it more... I don't know why either. It just feels a billion times better, both physically and mentally. And she doesn't see it, and I feel bad that I keep asking for sex more, I know it's not my fault and what not. And no I refuse to leave her so on and so forth cause I am very happy, i'm just looking for some suggestions for a type of negotation for her to make us both happy. I am looking overall for a more physical relationship, inside the bedroom, but when she has sex more, it's not as good for her physically because her orgasms aren't as good she says I Don't know if this is me or not.
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Old 05-07-2008, 09:12 AM
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Well look at your life, less stress so your sex drive is going to be higher. Why dont you try talking to her about possibly making a "deal" where she will help you out every once in a while.

Aside from that the only thing you can do is try to build sexual tension by doing things with a bit of a sexual overtone. Make her think about it more and maybe make her want it more. Or possibly brush up on your skills
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Well i've found out the true problem is that it is harder for her to get turned on. She belives it's because she isn't happy with her body.. So I am gonna help her fix that and go from there.
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Well thats good. I hope everything goes well for her. And I hope your libido's catch up to each others!
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Old 05-08-2008, 07:07 AM
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Good luck, yar; most of us have enough problems with our own body unhappiness and I am not sure that another can fix it for us.
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Old 05-08-2008, 07:14 AM
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If only gf's would believe us when we said that we thought they were amazing!

Because normally its true. (Unless your trying to get down their pants )
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No no I don't mean literally fix it for her I mean motivate her by making her exercise ect
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No no I don't mean literally fix it for her I mean motivate her by making her exercise ect
Get out and Walk together...great for bonding, talking, and exercise---and supportive & accepting of her!

yes, while we gain weight we do loose interest if the weight lowers self-esteem & will change the libido.
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Old 05-08-2008, 02:37 PM
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The best part of working out with a female. Generally, if there is sexual tension it skyrockets by the time your done exercising. I mean you already have the blood pumping, your breathing pretty hard and things just seem to go from there
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Sex itself is great exercise!! 3 times per week for 5 hours, on and off, at a time and she'll be in shape faster than you'd have thought! Cut out the excess food, increase the activity, increase the drinking of non-alocoholic beverages and voila! Go dancing! Clean the house while naked! Whatever! Body images are mutable and universal - so - forget about it!
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