what to do tonight?

[nursefluffykins]

My bf of 3.5 years just started this week a new job in a new city (which I will be moving to as well in a few months, once my job situation is cleared up between the old city and the new city)... so until then he is renting an apt. out there and driving back here on weekends... well today is friday and he'll be home in aprox. 7 hours, around 930pm. ... I've really missed him so much this week! We've never been apart this long. It's been a busy couple of months (looking for house in new city, buying our first house together, fire in his apt. building, car accident (small accident thankfully, but stressful none the less), crazy work schedules, etc.. that being said to explain the context a bit...what could I do to make tonight a little more special tonight? just something to show him how much I appreciate and miss him... Right now I'm working but later on I want to clean the apartment, so he doesn't have that to worry about, work out, take a shower, so that I'm feeling relatively good too lol... I'm really not good at mushy stuff hehe and neither is he, so here I turn myself to the imagination of the world wide web hehe... yes there will be sex (i hope! lol, while we don't have sex every day, we don't usually go over a week without it either lol)... any ideas? What would you like if you were (or have been) in such a situation?

[sera300]

A really big hug for a long time, a kiss with, a man smiling, a nice quiet dinner together...and a wonderful night of making love. I think the immediate eye contact and a big smile as one walks through the door is worth a thousand words. If you want to do something special for him; beyond that? Give him a night of pampering!

[GuruGuy]

Okay, I'll give a guy's take on this, it isn't quite so romantic...
One key decision to make is if you fancy the slow romance approach that Sera described nicely, or whether you'd prefer him to open that door wanting to rip your clothes off... Adjust the following in strength according to the desired outcome!

So firstly - text messages. Send them over the next few hours, building in intensity as he gets nearer to being home.
You can probably think of great ones yourself, but some examples might include:
I can't wait for you to get home!!!
I can't stop thinking about getting you naked
I'm getting wet just thinking about you
I'm not wearing any panties.
- tell him what you ARE wearing etc
- tell him what you want to do to him
Or even send him a photo...!

Just be fun and frank and descriptive - that will get him in the mood.

So, a few options for when he comes in, again, depending what you want to happen first.

Setting the scene, fav music in the background, maybe some candles too...

Be naked - JUST the big smile Sera recommended (and maybe some jewellery and high heels too)
Be scantily dressed in sexy underwear etc.
Or just be dressed sexily if you plan to eat first.
Just wearing an apron is a cute one, but the food usually gets cold...

Don't forget lots of perfume, make an impact with scent as well as looks.

You could try not saying a thing.
Just kiss him passionately, start undressing him, and then pull him to bed. Once you've got him naked and ready you can't go far wrong looking into his eyes and saying 'I love you, now f**k me.' or similar as your first words.

If needed, chuck him in the shower and tell him you'll be waiting in the bedroom. You'll never have seen him move so fast.

I'd probably go for a reasonably quick session straight in, then kissing and cuddling and catching up, then dinner. Then returning to bed for a much longer love making session.


Whatever you do, I hope you have fun!

[oedipussy]

Depends on what kind of experience you're looking for. Romance is nice, but sometimes all a guy wants is closeness.

Some ingredients for a sexy night: Wine, candles, a blanket, and YOU.

You can use these however you like; lay the blanket on your living-room floor and have a nice candlelight dinner on it (Chinese works well), cuddle up on the couch and watch a romantic-comedy together, put on a record and have a few slow-dances, take the wine and blanket with you and spend a nice night together on a deserted beach, etc.

Sex is always a good way to end an evening...

[nursefluffykins]

ok.. his E.T.A. is 30 mins... work is (almost) done... can finish it tomorrow hehe... apt. is (relatively) clean, workout is done (did most of the exercices i wanted to), gotta go shower.. and shave hehe...
I didn't send a txt msg because he just phoned from the road, but we'll see where this goes... he knows im on a diet and he's bringing home junk food but i'll let it slide for tonight hehe... we're probably going to watch a movie, see where it goes from there... ... maybe some sex first... i did have porn in the background while I was working out LOL.. thanks internet folks for the brainstorming, im gonna log off now for tonight

[EvilEvilKitten]

Read the sticky posts entitled Body Worship and The Program - really, what more do you need?

[constantlylearning]

Nursefluffy is and has always been a very insightful member of this
forum. Welcome back Nursey.

[nursefluffykins]

well isn't that a heckuva compliment,
nursefluffy has enjoyed posting on this website on and off over the last (almost) 4 years when she finds the time... there are plenty of other interesting people to share with here...

sooo if anyone out there in the land of the Internet cares to know lol, that night in particular my bf got home while i was still in the shower that i was taking after my workout... so he came in the bathroom and said hi, so i was like "why dont you join me in here"?... then he was like "well i've been on the road and haven't had supper yet"... but then about 2 seconds later he made what i would call the right decision and joined fluffy in the shower, and the bedroom... then we had supper hehe

im going to need some new ideas, as he will be coming home every friday until july (then i finally move out there ! Yay!)

this week im thinking to cook a nice candlelight dinner (to some people that may seem like nothing, but more often than not we just both grab random crap out of the fridge and eat in front of the tv LOL)... and of course after dinner we shall let nature take its course...
so thanks everyone for the input...

Fluffy is also having other problems while her bf is gone but she is gonna post those in a different section... or possibly under a pseudonym lol..

cheers!

[constantlylearning]

Good to hear things went well for you Fluffy. Hopefully, your "other" problems
will be subside quickly.

[nursefluffykins]

well my man should be home in 30 mins, yay! This is the best part of the week... but the weekend goes so quickly, esp. that because of the nature of my job well I gotta work part of the weekend, but what can u do, its only especially rough for a few more months then at least we'll be under the same roof... gonna shower and make a nice dinner... some wine hehe... take it from there, if you know what i mean lol... esp. that this week i've been so busy with my work in my end that i didn't even masturbate lol... i cant wait!! hehe... i hope everyone has a good weekend, or at the very least enjoy whatever time u can, as i plan to....