Dry up when start sex - So embrassed, but need help

[Jasons_Lady]

Hi,

I am searching for answerrs that ou may or may not be able to enlighten me on.
I have been in arelationship for over 3 yrs.. When being intimate with my bf I am wetter than you can imagine and my nipples are hard as rocks. All goo right?! Well heres the issue, when we start massive foreplay and intercourse, I am only slightly wet and my nips go soft...I am frusturated and don't get it. I can think of him and I am soaked still after 3 yrs but as soon as the intercourse starts I am not as umm wet or my nips start to go soft. I know he is as frusurated by it because I over heard him telling his buddy. I could of crawled ina hole. Please help me to understand what to do to turn this around. When just a mere thought of him or physically seeing him gets me all aroused , what the heck is wrong with me lol I am highly frusturated by this as well , I pray someone out here can advise me or explain to me - I'm lost, When he comes back soon I want my parts to be up to par not only for him but for myself I am deeply in love with this man
Thank you

[SugarAddict]

Ummm why is he telling his friends about this?? That's what I'd be more concerned about.

As for the answer, I dunno sorry. Maybe you should just go at it quickly. I know eventually you just become less "wet" like it doesn't go on forever and ever. Maybe you are taking too much time between getting aroused and having sex?

[fock_her]

ummm....lube????

[demonbuttercup]

It's nothing to be embarrassed about...and Im w/ Sugar on why he's telling his buddies??

My nipples go back and forth from hard to soft.
I start out extremely wet but the longer the foreplay and depending on my cycle and stuff.. I'll continue to produce wetness...but sometimes I do but it's not as much as that initial "burst".

Like Sugar said....maybe there is TOO much time between the foreplay and the actual intercourse?
Or sometimes my b/f will just go down on me a minute or 2....get everything wet...and go for it....or yes bought lube works just as well.
I think Brandye say something like if dryness wasn't a common thing and women didn't need it...then companies wouldn't keep making it/ selling it/ and coming up with all these different variations of it

[Brandye]

What I said is that personal lubricants are sold for a reason - and the companies sell a lot. Use an applicator from vaginal jelly to fill yourself up with vaginal jelly or personal lube.

And if some guy was telling his mates about how my girl parts function, he would have no further access to my girl parts!

[Jasons_Lady]

Thank you for your response I have no clue why he told what I call his "creepy" male friend. Was the 1st time I ever heard him do something like that and about died. It stunned me because he is so incredibly secrative. Anywho, thank you and I never considered a lube...I can be so clueless sometimes and I really do not have girlfriends to talk to, I have always had male friends (former Tomboy lol)

[Jasons_Lady]

Brandye,

Also sorry for the double post. I am very new to sites as this and was unsure so I posted both places just incase. Am learning lol

Have a nice day , Jasons_lady

[Jasons_Lady]

Demonbuttercup,

Thank you so kindly for your advice. Maybe the time is to long between forplay & intercourse, but I didn't think there was. As I stated to Brandye, I don't really obtain girlfriends to be able to ask used to be a cliched' "tomboy" lol glamerous I know LOL. Meeting Jason over 3 years ago I instantly came back to being a lady that took beeter care of myself as in appearance getting all frilly and stuff. I really appreciate everyones help and kindness.

Thank you, Jasons_lady

[Jasons_Lady]

Ps, I was until I met Jason and not apearance wise the "Miss COngeniality" that was in of help LOL
" I really do want world Peace!!!"
Have a nice day adn thank you again, jasons_Lady

[Jasons_Lady]

Thank you for your respone