02-06-2008, 06:53 PM
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He's off to college - eek!
Hey guys
so this weekend my boyf is going off to visit his friend in college and im nervous about him going, Yes i am insecure so of course i worry. I mean most guys go to parties, and i know he will be getting drunk. The last time he was away from me, i made the BIG MISTAKE of calling him while him and his friend was playing in some stupid college game and he talked to me like i had interrupted him from some heart operation. I dont understand... he gets mad at me when hes away caus i like to talk to him, and catch up and talk about the drive, the people etc..All im doing is showing an interest. Can u please explain how i am supposed to get through this weekend without being concerned or worried. I mean of course when he answers the phone and just wants to be like Hi/Bye im gonna be like what the hell y'know AM I WRONG?? 
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02-06-2008, 07:10 PM
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Yup you are wrong.. give the guy some space..
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02-06-2008, 07:21 PM
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Man time is just that "Man time" generally it's sort of a silly bonding adventure among pals. Similar to you shopping and getting phone calls constantly while trying on new make up/clothing/shoes.
Trust goes far...let go an keep occupied, leave him to himself...go shopping or something.
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02-06-2008, 07:34 PM
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I read another of your posts and to me you appear very insecure. you either trust him or not.....
If you do.. leave him alone when he is on his "boy's weekend" If you don't... find someone else... but you have to get rid of your insecruities or you will never have a healthy relationship
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02-06-2008, 07:39 PM
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02-06-2008, 07:49 PM
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02-06-2008, 07:51 PM
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02-07-2008, 04:03 AM
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You act like being insecure is the greatest little thing in the world and perfectly natural- it isn't. Just go to your mirror, take out a red lipstick and draw a big red L on your forehead for LOSER and be done with it.
The message he's getting is CONTROLLING. You do not want him to have any fun WITHOUT YOU - so you bust into his buddy time to make sure he doesn't have any. Some gf he has! He always has to be looking over his shoulder making sure you don't have a major melt down over something innocuous. STOP BEING INSECURE.
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02-07-2008, 04:04 AM
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btw...speaking of men friends.....
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