Married a long time

[jobobf]

I was married for over 35 years and I lost her to Breast Cancer. We had a great sex life until the cancer kicked in. I love touching her going down on her. I'm now seeing an Asian women who has knocked off my feet! For a long time she would not let me go down on her because she said it was dirty and stinks, but I finally got to work my way down to the golden aches! I love it and she seems to enjoy it too, but she is still hung up on it is dirty and don't orgasm. I have a very bad back and I'm looking for a good position so I'm not laid up after the action! I have looked at the positions on the web site and some look promising. I have to get her to look at positions and see if any look appealing! This is a "GREAT WEB SITE"

[Ducy]

Umm...what? you mean oral positions? There is laying or side to side 69...and there is face riding...you lay on your back...head on a pillow...she straddles your mouth...

[Brandye]

Ducy, please go back to Chapter 1 of your sex ed class.

Many women share this hangup. As she becomes accustomed to your oral action, she will slowly learn that it is not dirty and somethiing you can both enjoy. You may want to tell her that the healthy vagina is cleaner than the healthy mouth! True.

[Thresher_V]

Maybe I'm misinterpreting, but if she's self conscience about her smell, try a scented/flavored lube until she's more comfortable.

[jobobf]

She seems to get better the more partake in the actively. I always tell her smells great to me and would like to do it more and more.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You're doing just fine, jobb, please continue.

As to bad backs - arrange yourself so you are comfortable and have her arrange herself accordingly. Have fun 'experimenting'!

[jobobf]

That is my plan! I do enjoy more than actual sex because I can do it longer!

[Brandye]

And forget the scented and flavored lubes. They may be interesting gimmicks but some women develop a reaction to them. Besides, using them is a message that her natural flavors need be covered.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Brandye

And forget the scented and flavored lubes. They may be interesting gimmicks but some women develop a reaction to them. Besides, using them is a message that her natural flavors need be covered.

Yeah...the lubes. There used to be "Motion lotion" cinnamon flavored! The more it had friction the more heat there was from the product. When all was said & done? It was as if we both had been bitten by red ants...ruined the "Honeymoon activities"...we could barely get in the pool after for a few days! LOL Not that it mattered b/c I blew two disks in my back then too! We wanted to write our honeymoon off against our annual taxes as "Medical expenses"...

[EvilEvilKitten]

The main areas of injury for swingers are: backs and knees. A few also have rotator cup injuries. But mostly backs and knees.

Physical therapist take note! There's a HUGE market here just waiting for someone! Set yourself as a 'specialist' as the 'swinger's physical therapist'.