Married a long time

[sera300]

Perhaps lack substance from you perspective...however, no it does not in others views. And I do believe he appreciates it.
Value is what the reader finds helpful.

[constantlylearning]

He is obviously a person with a great deal of sorrow rooted deep in his heart.
That has to be one of the worst feeling to endure on a daily basis. Somethings
are not easily forgotten nor "put in the closet." When substance is lacking
then ultimately there is very little value. It would be nice to have a perspective
that was laced with wisdom and knowledge unfortuantely mine has neither.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by constantlylearning

He is obviously a person with a great deal of sorrow rooted deep in his heart.
That has to be one of the worst feeling to endure on a daily basis. Somethings
are not easily forgotten nor "put in the closet." When substance is lacking
then ultimately there is very little value. It would be nice to have a perspective
that was laced with wisdom and knowledge unfortuantely mine has neither.

Wisdom & Knowledge IS present; you feel it & you know it. Anyone who has lost knows that! However, as you know, not one can shed expertise since everyone copes differently & finds solace in different ways.

All I can say as a woman; if a man loved me that much--I would wish him to go on & find love again.

[jobobf]

I was with her when she past, all she care about WHO was going to take care of me. Well I found someone just down the street a wonderful Asian woman Makes me very happy but I still miss my wife and we talk about her alot.

[constantlylearning]

I think that your first sentence above is an indication of "true love." A love
that is selfless and void of selfishness. In that I mean, someone loved you
so much that your well being took significance over her own situation. If
people in general would love one another with 1/10th of that intensity then
the world would be a much better place. It seems to be such a rare occurence
in the "me first" society that seems to dominant these days. I would count myself
extremely fortunate to have loved and been loved in that way at least once in your
lifetime. Love like that can never really fade.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by constantlylearning

I think that your first sentence above is an indication of "true love." A love
that is selfless and void of selfishness. In that I mean, someone loved you
so much that your well being took significance over her own situation. If
people in general would love one another with 1/10th of that intensity then
the world would be a much better place. It seems to be such a rare occurence
in the "me first" society that seems to dominant these days. I would count myself
extremely fortunate to have loved and been loved in that way at least once in your
lifetime. Love like that can never really fade.

There are women like that..men? Tough one there. Love will never fade; you just hope you find it again; the intensity.

[Mandie]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

The main areas of injury for swingers are: backs and knees. A few also have rotator cup injuries. But mostly backs and knees.

Physical therapist take note! There's a HUGE market here just waiting for someone! Set yourself as a 'specialist' as the 'swinger's physical therapist'.

There's also the masochist bottom - red raw

[constantlylearning]

Mandie you are bad so so bad.............."red raw" oh my...............