Sensuality and Tension

[Ducy]

So me and my girlfriend went on an little break from sex...nothing too bad just until our 1 year (feb 16). It was my idea, because I realized that I really miss our relationship...which we have both been neglecting due to her grounding. (basically we would have sex whenever she could got to "work" since we had urges and could always talk on the phone)

She agreed to it, and thought that it would also be good for us. But we also would like to keep (if not increase) the sexual tension between us...that way when we both decide to have sex, it will go by pretty smooth. (I mean us both wanting it enough that there wont be any nervousness due to our break)

So without doing something blatantly obvious (like coping a feel) what are some sensual things that we could do...like for instance, I gave her a foot rub last night that led to a leg rub than led to the inner thigh...very inner lol.

I mean are there any kisses, or just subtle touches/gestures (that could even be done in public without raisng any suspicion) that I could do to just raise the craving for one another?

And I am aware of body worship....

(p.s. I know I also posted a thread about penis position...and even though we are on a break I wanna be prepared....so no flaming por favor)

[emilie]

Fingers lightly running down my arms give me goosebumps. Innocent enough to do in public but compleatly sensual. Same with..
Hand on the small on the small of my back with the pads of fingers doing little circles.
Playing with my hair always gets me gooey.

I'm starting to daydream now LOL

[bWg]

If shes standing looking away from you, wrap your arms around her and lightly kiss her neck. Drives my girl crazy.

Sucking on her earlobes, lightly running your nails across her back and shoulders, or just making out might do the trick, too.

[sera300]

Gently put your fingers on her body while watching a movie and inadvertently apply gentle stokes on her arms, fingers, leg, etc. Go slow and do not keep focused on one part....just some gentle light stimulation...touchy & feely...see if she begins to wiggle...

[bWg]

Hahaha...if you follow some of this advice, I think you're going to have some trouble keeping your goal...

[bluetide76]

All these suggestions work well, id have to say what works best for me is in the eyes. One simple look can either melt or fire her up. Just gotta work the body language.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by bluetide76

All these suggestions work well, id have to say what works best for me is in the eyes. One simple look can either melt or fire her up. Just gotta work the body language.

EYE CONTACT IS SO APPROPRIATE; just a glance and the eye twinkle melts me!!!!! Gentle touch which appears innocent is hot....subtle contact...touching her back while opening a door. Helping her put a coat on. And while doing the coat on...brush her neck and tuck her scarf...buy her a nice silk one!!!! Cause her unbelievable tension, LOL! Also...while closing the car door...kiss her on the cheek...

[sera300]

Get out and take Salsa lessons....Hot.

[Ducy]

haha sera...Oh and bWg that is kinda the purpose I am asking for...I want us to be so built up that there is none of the "uhoh havent done it in a month what if i do something wrong" haha....

Then again I think tension raises passion which increase infection (both public and private displays) which always gives me the warm and fuzzies...

A simple yet passionate kiss, or even a little peck on the neck or arm makes my day....what can I say I am a romantic

[sera300]

Ducy, you should not have to increase passion & tension at your age. If you do there is something not right. Hormones flow....therefore tension is built and intimacy? You still have her mother issue. YOU are working too hard to make somehting which should be natural.