selfish lover

[lovesfool]

hey
just having trouble with my gf
an example would be last sunday
i went down on her for well over 10 minutes
after that she started to give me a handjob, great i thought!
as i started to near orgasm , she stops
i ask her why, she replies, i don't like cum, i don't want it on me
this really pissed me off
im seeing her again tomorrow and i presume she will want me to pleasure her but i think im going to ignore her hints and moves

thats my general idea of what to do, i just wondered if there were any better options?
i said we could use a condom but she says she does'nt want to incase of her parents finding the packet

dunno what else to do

[oedipussy]

Funniest story I've ever read on here...

Dear God - Leave this chick, pronto!

[lovesfool]

don't make sense
i think she needs to be more mature if she can't handle cum

[bWg]

Tell her that if she doesn't like cum on her than she can take it in her. Any old place will do...

On a more serious note, you should probably talk to her about it instead of just ignoring her advances. Tell her that while you don't necessarily require anything in return, you would REALLY appreciate it. Sounds like she doesn't understand how guys work, and you should probably explain it to her.

As for the condom wrapper, it is quite simple to throw it away in a way that parents wouldn't find it. Back in the day, I would always find something else in the garbage to put it inside, a cereal box or whatever. Or just take it with you when you leave and throw it out in a trash can or dumpster down the road (no littering please. ).

Good luck.

[machine_rat]

Has she ever pleasured you before, or is this a new girlfriend?

I suppose you could keep a towel down there, or something to prevent the ejaculate from getting on her. Another thing you can do is tell her that you'll let her know when you are right about to cum, that way she can move her hand out of the 'danger zone'.

[demonbuttercup]

Yea the wrapper isn't so big you can't hide it lol.... just don't be dumb and leave it laying around.

And yes she does seem somewhat immature. I mean it's one thing for a woman to say... " I don't want to swallow" or whatever... but to not help you orgasm in anyway b/c she doesn't want it on her hand?!? geesh.
It's not a big deal.... and EVENTUALLY she's going to have to deal w/ it!!! It's sort of inevitable when it comes to sexual relations LOL.

I agree...don't act like.. oh none for you since you don't return the favor... but ask point blank... maybe she's just nervous since she's maybe never actually "seen" cum. I was a bit apprehensive my first time giving HJs and BJs just b/c I had NO idea what to expect...you know?!?

Ask her what is is about it that grosses her out?
She's not having to take a mouthful... so she can't say taste.. which is the main factor.

[demonbuttercup]

LOL
Highway to the Danger Zone!
Or maybe get her to wear latex gloves and use lube!!!

[bWg]

Or just have her jack you off into a sock, lol

[Brandye]

And what state was she in after ten whole minutes?

[sera300]

Well, I assume then you will never have to worry about pregnancy by you with her attitude. Find someone more mature.