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[Paradox_Mc]

me and my gf have been together for awhile now and our sex life couldnt be better but i am afraid that we will burn the spark out i love more then life but i dont wanna lose her

what should i do

oh and gift ideas for Vallintines day would be good as well

[averagejoe]

Originally Posted by Paradox_Mc

me and my gf have been together for awhile now and our sex life couldnt be better but i am afraid that we will burn the spark out i love more then life but i dont wanna lose her

what should i do

oh and gift ideas for Vallintines day would be good as well

You could test out new positions or get some tingely sensation lube. A small ice cube inside your partner whilst hvin sex is fun too.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Paradox_Mc

me and my gf have been together for awhile now and our sex life couldnt be better but i am afraid that we will burn the spark out i love more then life but i dont wanna lose her

what should i do

oh and gift ideas for Vallintines day would be good as well

If you are wondering after a little over a year, imagine 10+ years. Be imaginative. Read threads here; or buy a book (the joy of sex) and look at new positions or ideas.

Valentines day? Since you are young & your gf? Buy her a nice gift...flowers and a very nice card. Or cook her a homemade meal & make it romantic.

[bWg]

For the gift, Sera had a good point. Out of all the Valentine's Days I've "celebrated" with someone, the one that was the biggest success was the dinner I made myself. I cooked her a nice meal, had candles lit, and afterwards we had a candle-lit bath. For other ideas, just watch some chick flicks. Girls say "awwwwww" during those movies for a reason.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by bWg

For the gift, Sera had a good point. Out of all the Valentine's Days I've "celebrated" with someone, the one that was the biggest success was the dinner I made myself. I cooked her a nice meal, had candles lit, and afterwards we had a candle-lit bath. For other ideas, just watch some chick flicks. Girls say "awwwwww" during those movies for a reason.

That is a good point beyond just hitting the bed. Lingerie? Seems to over rated for those who are not married [and a few who are married]...maybe lingerie with a meal at home, nice bottle of wine & a movie [long term marrige]? But remember if dating her...her parents ask what did you get for VD day...its nice to have a good reply & one with merit without the answer being VD! A joke in the ER....we used to call it VD day for a reason!

[curious_woman]

1 year and 3 months and the spark is already gone?

You definitely need to try new things. I've been with my man nearly 2 years and we still act like a couple of dogs in heat. We made a bet not to have sex until the weekend, and I'm pretty sure when he comes home tonight he's going to rip my clothes off because he can't wait.

[demonbuttercup]

Originally Posted by Paradox_Mc

me and my gf have been together for awhile now and our sex life couldnt be better but i am afraid that we will burn the spark out i love more then life but i dont wanna lose her

what should i do

oh and gift ideas for Vallintines day would be good as well

Why worry about something that hasn't even happened yet??
Don't pull all your tricks out of the bag too soon! Save them for when you REALLY need them!

And as for VDay... we could all recommend the generic flowers. etc... but you know your girl best. What's something she's really into? Things she likes, movies, cds, a new case for her IPod, Itunes card...etc. lol
I enjoy getting that sort of stuff... flowers die to fast They are pretty for awhile tho

I mean for me... a sweet card and going out to dinner... or like they mentioned... a nice dinner at home. Anything that lets you 2 spend some time together!

[dancingdoc2]

Originally Posted by Paradox_Mc

me and my gf have been together for awhile now and our sex life couldnt be better but i am afraid that we will burn the spark out i love more then life but i dont wanna lose her

what should i do

oh and gift ideas for Vallintines day would be good as well

One of the bits of wisdom I tell my dance students at the very beginning of a class session is that it is not so important how many dance steps or patterns you know; rather, how well you lead the ones you do know and how you mix them up. A woman will enjoy dancing much more with a person who can lead and convey to his partner what he wants to do than the jerk who has been dancing "forever" and thinks he is God's gift yet yanks, jerks, pushes, and pulls his partner around the dance floor as he attempts to lead her into moves she has no clue what he is trying to do. Smooth, suave, debonair, he ain't.

The correlation? That preventing boredom is not so much in knowing a lot of techniques; instead, in being able to spice things up by varying the pattern of things you do know how to do. Next, is being able to please your partner by being in touch with their desires and responses and filling them.

Make love to each other's mind, soul, and psyche, and what you do with the body should follow as a natural extension.

I agree that you should try different techniques, positions, oils, massaging, and mix up the order in which things are done. Give each other feedback and ideas for what you want, next, or need--now. Explore and learn together and play off of what each of you are doing to each other. Making love is a partnership, so work together. It is not what one person does to the other; rather, what we do with and for each other. If you run out of ideas, say so. Ask her what she would like to try, or, just open up your sex manual or go to this site's home page and look for different positions and ideas.

If you mix things up, add something new or a different twist to something old once in a while, change the time of the day you make love from the norm, change the place--even if all you do is turn around on the bed, this is often enough to make things different enough.

As for Valentine's: nothing says "I love you" like a box of exquisite chocolates and a single one of her favorite flowers. Beyond these, it all depends upon your ages, how long you've been dating, and what you know about what she likes or would treasure. Often the gift does not have to be expensive, just creative and with meaning and purpose behind the giving. If you have no ideas, ask her family or closest friend(s), on the QT.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Valentine's Day is The Day when men are ENCOURAGED to cut loose! I suggest showing her exactly what you're made of by NOT TAKING NO for an answer! Let it all out - full bore romance! Chocolates, a flower and a candle-lit session in bed that last for 4 hours straight!

Mess up the bed and her hair!
You KNOW you WANT to!!

[Sweetness12]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Mess up the bed and her hair!
You KNOW you WANT to!!

Thats great....
It makes me imagine a guy sitting behind a girl *fully clothed* getting off on totally screwing her hair up.