Age abd sexual positions

[Scott]

we could use advice on positions. Age, and wear and we are both a bit broke. I have a bad lower back, so certain positions hurt during, often after. She has bad knees, sometimes ankle hurts and feet sort of go to sleep too. A bj laying on her side and her shoulder hurts. We are looking for help is a position better for a couple a bit broke as we are.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Okay. Lets run down the list:

Male superior - no, due to his bad back but if he was standing at the end or side of the bed - maybe, then he could stand while she was on her back. He could also try kneeling between her legs and entering from that way since his knees aren't so bad. Aswing would also be useful assuming he can stand. If not then a modified weight-lifting bench with a seat for him might be the way to go but they are hard to find, highly specialed, and very expensive.

Female superior - no, due to her bad knees, however, if they could find an armless rocking chair with a narrow enough seat, she could sit on him, facing him and then the motion should work for them.

From Behind- once again, no due to bad back AND bad knees but if she was bent over the side or end of the bed and he was standing - perhaps.

Spooning, her shoulder might go out - perhaps using pillows will help - one under her lower armpit? Might work.

The other alternative would be to wear support braces and gear up before sex. Could be kinky. If you get those Thermal supoprt wraps that you heat up prior to use - mmm - that's kinky - shame they don't come in colors. I've seen them in grocery stores. So they are widely available.

[browneyedgirl]

There are lots of special pillows designed for sex, perhaps these would help? Or even an orthopedic back pill may help. There are also special pillows meant to be used between the knees for those who sleep on their sides - this could help your wife's knees. I think you're best bet may be talking to your doctor honestly about this issue. They may have recommendations. If you don't want to talk about sex with the doctor, just address ways to alleviate back, shoulder, or knee pain. Perhaps there are supplements you could take to improve your aches and pains. Also if either of you are overweight, this will only contribute to bad joints, so try to stay healthy and get exercise.

[machine_rat]

Last year I was at the book store looking for books on how to treat my pinched sciatic nerve. In the same midical/back care section I came across a book detaling how to have sex while having back injuries (and the theraputic values).