looking for discreet pleasure

[shortbutlovetofuk]

First I know im not the only guy that has this problem (i think)
but my wife of 7yrs has no sex drive what so ever. It slowly went away. She does not want anything to do with me until she wants some wich is about once a month. I cannot go that damn long, YES i masturbate from time to time. Right or wrong this is how it has become
About a yr ago i met someone and she has a sex drive that I love and she is married also. From this point iv stoped all together trying with her. My wife seems happier and we dont fuss about us doing it either.
Im looking for someone else tho for differnt reasons but im not willing to pay sites for it either. if any one can give me som ideas let me kno

[Sweetness12]

ok..so lemme try to get this straight... U are cheating on your wife because she has no sex drive, or...you've both agreed that you can see someone on the side to get your charlies when u want sex....

Im confused on your post

[sera300]

Originally Posted by shortbutlovetofuk

First I know im not the only guy that has this problem (i think)
but my wife of 7yrs has no sex drive what so ever. It slowly went away. She does not want anything to do with me until she wants some wich is about once a month. I cannot go that damn long, YES i masturbate from time to time. Right or wrong this is how it has become
About a yr ago i met someone and she has a sex drive that I love and she is married also. From this point iv stoped all together trying with her. My wife seems happier and we dont fuss about us doing it either.
Im looking for someone else tho for differnt reasons but im not willing to pay sites for it either. if any one can give me som ideas let me kno

They are all over the internet...Adultfriendfinder, Iwantu.com, Plentyoffish, Passion.com, etc...

[EvilEvilKitten]

No you AREN'T the only person with this problem, NOR are you the only person to come up with this 'solution'. The internet is full of sites that will answer your needs. Adultfriendfinder being one of the largest multinational sites on the web but beware that these sites are often interlinked and are indeed sister-sites each sharing information between them. One profile apparently gets you three or four that you may not have intended.

[maupassant]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

No you AREN'T the only person with this problem, NOR are you the only person to come up with this 'solution'. The internet is full of sites that will answer your needs. Adultfriendfinder being one of the largest multinational sites on the web but beware that these sites are often interlinked and are indeed sister-sites each sharing information between them. One profile apparently gets you three or four that you may not have intended.

But the problem is the guy does not want to pay for it via the sites. I would not mind paying, but am worried that I would be getting somebody who would 'change the goalposts' and demand more than I am willing to give in terms of commitment. And is that 65 yr old lady really a 65yr old or some university prat out for a laugh???

[sera300]

Originally Posted by maupassant

But the problem is the guy does not want to pay for it via the sites. I would not mind paying, but am worried that I would be getting somebody who would 'change the goalposts' and demand more than I am willing to give in terms of commitment. And is that 65 yr old lady really a 65yr old or some university prat out for a laugh???

The majority of these have sites which are free and they do not have to upgrade...you get spammed a lot as Evil stated..I heard from male friends the problem now is women hooking up their shows for profit...

[EvilEvilKitten]

I wouldn't know. I just hear stories.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

I wouldn't know. I just hear stories.

I had to do research for P.A. One course posed the question of Information Technology for the Public Sector; limit or not Internet use?

So, while seeing what a public sector employee could "do" at work on the employers time, was well, "unique". Much "trouble" to be found by a bored public employee...and the ramifications for the employer? Lots of computer crashes, spam, and breech of information. In essence, a great headache for an administrator & politician seeking election (or re-election). We even stepped it up as high as the DHS.

Have to see it to believe it! Seek and you can find anything...almost unless buffering is done well.

[EvilEvilKitten]

What one can learn!

[shortbutlovetofuk]

Originally Posted by maupassant

But the problem is the guy does not want to pay for it via the sites. I would not mind paying, but am worried that I would be getting somebody who would 'change the goalposts' and demand more than I am willing to give in terms of commitment. And is that 65 yr old lady really a 65yr old or some university prat out for a laugh???

More so im looking to be discreet, and yes that has crossed my mind bout someone out for a laugh. I have women flirting with me from tiime to time but how do i tell if there just flirting r serious? How do come on to a woman just to let her know im just looking for friends with benifits with out blowing my cover? Im new to this and really need some help.
Any ladies from arkansas wanna show me the ropes?