squirting

[curious-girl]

I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 and a half years. Hes been trying to make me squirt while giving me an orgasm and I am unable. I always feel like I have to go to the washroom but I have tried to relax and everything. Does anyone have any ideas or tips so that I can help give him the pleasure of me squirting for him?

[wet_suit_one]

Quick question, what about your pleasure of squirting for you? I've heard (I don't know as I'm a man) that it's one of the better orgasms a woman can have. Aren't you interested for your own sake and pleasure?

Anyways, EEK will be riding to the rescue soon as will Dancin' Doc.

My advice, use the search function and read a bit about the info on here (and other threads). It's near the top left of the screen. Search terms "G-Spot orgams" or "squirting".

Isn't it fascinating how much squirting has come into vogue these days? I attribute its popularity to the Internet and Internet Porn. Alisha Klass and Cytherea have (once more) raised the bar for women (in a manner of speaking).

It's good and bad I suppose. Good in that it's something that people probably weren't aware of before that they can now enjoy together, bad in that now women have one more thing to be anxious about. That's kinda too bad because women seem to have a bit on their plate already in that corner.

Just remember ladies, virtually all heterosexual men are simply happy to be allowed to be in your intimate company. Well, sort of anyways. Eventually, a man doesn't want to be taken for granted and wants to be with a woman who actually enjoys sex. I imagine its the same with women. The term "dead f**k" does mean something, though I've never heard such a term used with respect to a man...

Anyways, I've run at the mouth enough.

[dancingdoc2]

What We Know: G-Spot and Ejaculation

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INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of G-spot massage

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[Brandye]

Some women squirt; some do not; and some do sometimes. There is nothing he can do to "make" you squirt. It is your orgasm for your pleasure, not his. Want to make him feel macho or something? He really does make that much difference in this.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You are trying to ejaculate already. That feeling of having to go to the washroom is your body's signal that it wants to ejaculate. G-Spot stimulation, esp with cunnilingus is the most reliable method but it can be stimulated via the penis if its used to stimulate either the G-Spot or the posterior fornix.

When you feel the urge to urinate, relax, relax, RELAX, and just let it go. You are NOT urinating, you are ejaculating.

No, it doesn't happen all the time. Some women just can't. And the amount will vary even in the same woman.

Yes, it is a COSMIC ORGASM.

[Valerie]

Really? Does it feel the same as needing to pee then?

I have never squirted, I just don't think I'm a squirter... but surely if you're not sure whether the sensation is needing to pee or not, it's too big a risk to take???

I think that anyone down there would HIGHLY object to being urinated on, even accidentally (unless they're one of the rare few who are into that. My boyfriend definitely is not).

[dancingdoc2]

The obvious logical solution would be to go to the washroom prior to making love.

The urge to pee can then be considered to be a false signal to be (1) ignored, and (2) pushed through in order to reach whatever pleasure awaits on the other end of the journey.

This "signal" can occur with both men and women and usually manifests itself with women who are experiencing a climax for the first few times whether it be by masturbation or foreplay.

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by dancingdoc2

The obvious logical solution would be to go to the washroom prior to making love.

The urge to pee can then be considered to be a false signal to be (1) ignored, and (2) pushed through in order to reach whatever pleasure awaits on the other end of the journey.

Ooh, no, I don't know. Even if I've just been, I would by no means take that as a guarantee that I won't just go again...

Being a person who finds no erotic quality in urine whatsoever, I really don't think I would feel comfortable with any kind of 'needing to pee' feeling at any time during sex.

[sera300]

If you are really into the sex; such as during intercourse and you are on top...I found if I am 100% comfortable with my partner and relaxed it happens perhaps 50% of the time. There has to be g-spot stimulation though during intercourse. If you have emptied your bladder...trust me...you will not urinate! Its the sort of sex you wish continues forever & when you are completely lost in it...it feels like a warm gush but not like the sensation you get during urination...

You will get to the point [if possible] if you let yourself go 100% into it the great feeling of him stimulating you to the pre-orgasm stage but it seems to last forever...much like falling and just letting go!

[Valerie]

Hmmm... well thanks for the advice! I'll keep it in mind!