The Program

[paws4thought]

Love it ;-)

[EvilEvilKitten]

More lube, Ducy! Never skimp on lube, hun. And you might try Astro-Glide. I know many prefer water-based but this is why they developed silicone based lubes.

[latebloomer]

My bf and I are in a long term relationship, but haven't been sexually active all that long. We have done all of the above in many combos, but can't seem to get him to stay up past putting the condom on. We tell ourselves its just a matter of practice and finding what works, but we tend to get caught up in the rest of it because we're having such a good time with those things. Ideas?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Try a larger size condom for one - most buy too small and then wonder what happened to their erection. The next step for him to realise that great as sex is - it isn't worth dying for and wouldn't he want to protect you as well? It isn't just STDs, but also but yeast infections and genital warts.

[latebloomer]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

as sex is - it isn't worth dying for and wouldn't he want to protect you as well? It isn't just STDs, but also but yeast infections and genital warts.

Well duh. We admittedly don't worry QUITE as much b/c I'm his first and I had never done it without before him, but we still always use one. I was mostly looking for erection ideas. We have kind of decided that while emotionally there are no regrets, physically we started too soon and need to learn each other a little more. Thanks EEK.

[EvilEvilKitten]

At his age, if he's not maintaining erections, there's something wrong with him, not your technique. Guys, learn to love the condom because it means sex is ON.

[michron]

New member....but Kudos to you Evil.... Dynamic sharing! Thanks....

[CleverName]

So what exactly is body worship? I keep hearing it on these forums.

[EvilEvilKitten]

There's a sticky post right next to this one that explains Body Worship.