The Program

[RedRoses]

LOL EEK, once more: you've made my day!

Originally Posted by Barely18Guy

Look EEK, I understand that it's your way of answering, and the fact that the young 18 years old I am understood right away is not helping, but "Ceress" and "Penetration (as light as it can be)" Are not two concepts that seem to go well together for your average male conversation partner.

Glad to have met someone not that average then I clearly remember the first time my bf did this gspot-stroking to me (though neither of us knew it was called this way); as I was hungry for him and tried to push him in all the way, he just made me hold back. I went crazy with pleasure!

Guess the lesson for the average male would be that just because a part of the body goes "hard" does not mean it has to used "hard"

[EvilEvilKitten]

I wanted to make the difference PERFECTLY CLEAR to him and all the other males out there.

[epicsexy]

Thanks EEK!!!! I'm going to have the perfect weekend, now if only I could get my roommates to leave this weekend lol

[big916]

is it a goal or an extra if she cums during step 4-5 or this is just supposed to be a build up for penetrative sex?

[EvilEvilKitten]

An extra - remember, the more orgasms she has, the better she'll remember/like you.

[big916]

duly noted

[Horus69]

Kitty U keep preaching the gospel babe keep up the good work

[EvilEvilKitten]

Horus - the proper term of address is "Ma'am". Thank you.

[brenden83]

I have a question...

My fiance and I have always gone straight for the "big O" unless she is drunk then shje doesn't mind being fondled and allow me to go down on her and explore. She says she is tickelish and she is, and shy. But I have done everything to boost her confidence, but she still will not allow me to explore. Only when she is drunk! In the begining she would get naturally wet, but that wore off quickly and we now rely on lube.

I allow her to do anything she wants to me , but even that isn't much. I crave to explore and make our sessions longer than 5 to 10mins. She is able to come quickly everytime, granted she is ontop and straddles me. Its always sex\lovemaking on her terms and when I suggest prolonged foreplay and fondling it becomes too much work for her.

Is it possible that I just got one of those woman that like to "wham bam thank you mam"?

I'd also like to address the lack of cuddling afterwards as I feel this goes hand in hand with lovemaking...

Any advice will be appreciated

[dancingdoc2]

Brenden, Brenden, Brenden...

Except for the questions about ticklishness and exploration, the answers to your concerns have already been given to you. Have you started reading each one of the articles in the Index? If not, why not? What about your fiancee?

Ticklishness: Both men and women can experience this after becoming very aroused. The fix is to use sightly more pressure in that place when caressing her. In addition, if your caress is rapid, slow the movement.

Exploration: Try first exploring in the dark. If successful, add a bit of light from a nightlight, moon, or street light. Compliment her on how she looks in her "birthday suit" and how much you admire "it". When and if she becomes more confident and acquires some self esteem, then you can move on to sunlight, parks, beaches, mountain trails, etc. Consider playing "Doctor" as part of your sex play activities and see if she can muster sufficient confidence to let her be "examined" by the "doctor"--you. If yes, go as far as he is comfortable with and stop--no begging or cajoling to go farther. Next time, see if she is comfortable enough to go a bit farther, and so on. There is an article the two of you should read that describes boundaries, limits, and using Implied Consent.