The Program

[bobloblaw]

Hi EvilEvilKitten,
I have tried your "program" but it does not seem to work for my partner of ten years. She has lost all interest in sex altogether. She thwarts my advances and attempts at your program as she hates to be touched now for the last two years. She says she has no interest in sex at all regardless of whom it would be with. No one is sexy to her. Help!

[EvilEvilKitten]

Bob,
presumably she used to be sexual - so what changed?


Subprime,
If you can hold out, hold out; if you can't then orgasm, return to body worship etc and do all of that until you've recharged and can go again. Actual penetration should rarely last longer than 15 minutes or so. Please be advised to tailor The Program to your specific lady's requirements.

[bobloblaw]

To E.E.K.
What changed?
She says it is perimenopause. No interest in anyone of the opposite sex she tellls me. She has been on medication for high blood pressure as well which can lower libido according to the potential side effects. She goes to the gym at least twice a week for the last two years which involves an hour's drive to get there and keeps her there all day. Same area where her ex husband and ex inlaws live. She is still very close to all of them. Weird?
Bob

[EvilEvilKitten]

Not really no, but she should get back to the doctor and find a medication that still works to control her blood pressure but doesn't kill her sex drive.

[Ziggymarzz]

If only I wanted to do this. At this point in my life I would just much rather lay there and bang it out. The quicker the better then I can go to sleep! Trust me it is not him, it's me.

[EvilEvilKitten]

At this point in your life? What's up with that?

Come on - TELL!

[Ziggymarzz]

Well I guess you got the "just of it" by reading my post of hating sex. I am very seriously considering your advice. I'm 25 and my marriage has a lot of great sex to look forward to. Maybe I will be able to follow this program you recommend. Once I fix myself first.

[EvilEvilKitten]

The gist is that you had a child two years ago and haven't enjoyed sex since - yes, something is very wrong and you need to get this done - whatever it takes. If your husbands wants to know why - TELL HIM. Yes, money may be tight but health and happiness come before money.

[CB1969]

Well EEK, I must say this method sounds tremendously exciting to me, and I'm eager to try it out. My wife and I use massage oils from time to time, but I confess we've not really thought of structuring our love making this way. I'm really keen to try it out now, so thanks.

I guess my only concern with it is climaxing myself through the g spot stimulation stage (for want of a better term!) or the next one, though I understand from your post on this page that this ought not be a problem.

So thanks for the advice, good of you to post it here.

[EvilEvilKitten]

You're very welcome.

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