The Program

[lnt1103]

There's no reason to get hung up. It's a pretty natural progression. Start with simple pleasures, then get more and more advanced by adding concepts.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Practice makes perfect!

[maupassant]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Practice makes perfect!

And the opportunity to practise is even more important to some of us!!!

[sexygator]

just joined here, but this sounds perfect....can't wait to try it out.

[EvilEvilKitten]

It works too!!

[e_room_matt]

Also in terms of salesmanship. Do you recommend presenting the program formally to her first (as in, read this stuff, I really think this could work for us). Or to think I should just try try again and let it sell itself on results?

[EvilEvilKitten]

Why not try BOTH?
Print it out for her and say "I dare ya" in a teasing kind of way while you're naked going nyah nyah?
Sure it sounds silly..but ya know - it might work.

[e_room_matt]

Is superb sex entirely about the program or is that just one section of the book?

[EvilEvilKitten]

That is just a part of the book.

wickedwomangroup has a section dealing with various 'how-to' books on various subjects and there are also 3 basic FREE books available for download, as PDFs, covering the topic of Intergender Relationships.

BTW Notes of a Dominatrix is a complete collection of all the books - one stop shopping - as it were, which is why it is rather pricey in hard copy.

[subprime]

Hi! This whole sequence of techniques pretty much sums up what I have learned about how my girlfriend likes sex. However, I'm having trouble understanding this part:

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

9. alternate between the G-Spot and the posterior fornix for as long as he can hold out

if a break between her orgasms is needed return to body worship to keep her warm

10. time for his climax

As I understand from The Program, the aim is to make her orgasm as much as possible before allowing myself to do so. What happens if I reach 9 and am unable to continue without climaxing (as I'm sure many other men have trouble with)? Go back to 6? Carry on and ejaculate, and then perform cunnilingus to 'finish her off'?

This is always the hardest part of sex for me as it's difficult to gauge when she is going to orgasm, and whether I should just carry on and hope we orgasm together, or whether I should hold back a bit to stop myself but risk her losing the momentum and going right back to square 1 (which is actually a fairly big, unavoidable problem for her).