The Program

[YHeloThar]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

You're going to hard thrusting far too early! You're also neglecting the oral sex and then the oral with manual. Give her orgasms at each hotspot before moving on to the next. If she needs to rest a bit, you return to the body worship, which is the technical name for the hands and lips all over her body, before returning to caressing the next hotspot on the list.

BTW you should not need to use your hands when caressing her G-Spot with your penis. Be guided by her responses and then remember how far in - do not draw rings around your penis however.

You're getting there.

oh i didn't make that clear, my thumb when i'm doing the g-spot is on her clitoris slowly/lightly.

so you talking like two rounds of oral orgasms there? first one just my tongue the second one with some insertion of something (finger probably).

split with this body worship?

[EvilEvilKitten]

The outline is below there. You return to body worship in between orgasms only if she requires a pause in the proceedings.

Cunnilingus - you make no mention of cunnilingus - why is that?

[YHeloThar]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

The outline is below there. You return to body worship in between orgasms only if she requires a pause in the proceedings.

Cunnilingus - you make no mention of cunnilingus - why is that?

i called it oral orgasms. i dunno i guess i just don't like typing out the word.

i'm gonna see how it goes friday although it will have been over a week since i last had sex so i'm thinking she will want me in her fast. maybe that'll make it even better if i take my time.

[Sesshomarulover261]

Omg this is perfect EvilEvil! pshh you tell everyone to come her but me! -tear-

lol anyway this is just what I needed to see! You know you give out some really great advice. This is going to really help me and my boyfriend out with our rushing problem.

We both love massages anyway

Oh one question...ok so how do you body worship a man? I would feel really silly saying something like your ,"Your dick looks amazing!" My boyfriend does it to me and he is just awesome at body worship and dirty talk but I...am...not. I get good ideas sometimes but only when I'm alone and if I remember them and use them...I run out of things to say.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Thank you. I have been studying sex and inter-gender relationships for more than 40 years now - I find it fascinating.

The Program answers so many issues. Timidity, shyness, body issues, lack of skill, acceptance of sexuality, participation issues - and a lot of other issues can all be solved by simply taking your time and moving from less intimate to more intimate sexual activities.

Please note that The Program is gender-neutral - either/any partner can "lead" at any time. I have tried a "mutual lead" but it didn't work out very well. Trying to focus upon what you are supposed to be doing and reading your partner's responses while trying to focus upon what you are feeling and displaying that to your partner - it gets messy. signals get crossed, and someone invariably falls off the bed.

Ah well!
Try again tomorrow!

[dancingdoc2]

> Omg this is perfect EvilEvil! pshh you tell everyone to come her but me! -tear-

Ah, but didn't I recommend reading all of the articles listed in the Index, including EEKs, more than once?

> anyway this is just what I needed to see! You know you give out some really great advice. This is going to really help me and my boyfriend out with our rushing problem.

Yup, she certainly does. More help? More articles can be read.

[Sesshomarulover261]

Yes sir you did and I did cause see I found this :P

Nah I'm pretty good for right now. Just taking it all in. Thank you

Sesshlove

[blatant_narcisism]

This sounds awfully complicated. Is this really the simplest way of doing it?

I would think that consciously doing all these things would detract from the experience?

[EvilEvilKitten]

You might think so, but you would be incorrect.

[blatant_narcisism]

I do plan on trying it. Anything to make sex better is something I'm willing to try (I'm greedy, what can I say?) I'm worried that I'll get hung up on one and not go onto the others.