More Sex

[Purple Fairy]

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. He wants to have sex all the time and i would love to but, I get to tired from the day or just dont feel like it. I love sex and want to have more with him. any tips?

[Ducy]

Fairy, you want to know a secret...you can never be too tired for sex. Sure you can be falling asleep but if you take the time to get turned on and have sex, it can be like a power charge. Youll feel awake, energetic, and relaxed. (although your boyfriend may be kinda drowsy....stupid triptophan lol). Just try it. Trust me. Even if you feel tired, take the time to get turned on. I doubt you will regret it!


And if your too dead set against having sex when your "tired". Then just have sex in the morning. Cuz guys tend to be "ready to go" when they first wake up since their body is waking up, their hormones are suddenly shooting through their body since they spent all night building everything up! Nothing beats a good morning orgasm

[Brandye]

Males at your age usually have a nedd for more frequent sex than women. The young adult male is a sperm machine. Sperm and semen are being produced constantly and there is an actual need to get rid of some when storage in the body becomes overloaded. We woman have no similar need.

When cohabiting in my younger days, Ialways "checked" as we went to bed - ran the back of my hand down the legnth of his torso. If there was no sign of arousal, that was that; if there was any erectness, I took care of it however I wanted - hand mouth, vagina. Took only a few minutes and that was an investment in getting the langourous seesion I wanted every week or so.

Neither gender recognizes this difference adequately and we women sometimes come across as cold. A quicj handjob can often solve this proble.

[browneyedgirl]

I totally agree with Brandye. That is exactly how I feel too... I love sex. But given the various circumstances of life, sometimes there just isn't time. I'm also pretty loud and so I'm not comfortable unless I know that we have a good amount of time alone together. But whenever he wants it and I don't, I'm quite happy to help him out in one way or another.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Tips:

1. take your vitamins

2. do your exercise - get fit

3. THINK about sex - take time out of your day to contemplate how GOOD it feels

4. drink fluids and stay hydrated

5. take the time to relax and properly engage in foreplay

6. make SEX important to you - let other things go and just jump his bones

You SAY you want sex, yet by your actions you are lying. Change your schedule. Have him do more around the house. Whatever it takes. TAKE ACTION so you have time, energy, and interest.

[Purple Fairy]

Originally Posted by Ducy

(although your boyfriend may be kinda drowsy....stupid triptophan lol).

oddly enough he is the one who is all chatty afterward and i just want to sleep. lol. But yea I see what you all are saying. I do need to make time. During the week we have school and we both live with parents so getting family to leave us alone at his house gets hard considering he doesnt have a lock. I will try to MAKE time for it. Thanks for your guyses help