is he making me happy?

[marija2m2]

my boy friend well how can i say this is a 5 or 5.5 inch average as much as I can see by the eye.
he shaves his genital area what looks nice and weird at the same time
When i am on top i cant say that i feel much i really dont like being on top.
The question is
I always thought on top I would feel him fully but i dont?
I wonder does size really matter in sex?
2 times i got so wet that i felt like his penis was smaller and didnt really enjoy sex that time with him and when i was on top?
At the begining of our relationship I thought he was fine size wise but now I wonder?!
does size matter?

and so far i only have orgazims when i am on top what sucks since i dont really feel him alot then

and yes we have done other position where i do feel him more
but i wonder

[Brandye]

No one other than you knows whether or not he is making you happy. Ask yourself that question.

Some reality for you: About a quarter of all women never experience orgasm and another half of us require stimulation in addition to penetration and thrusting.

In several decades of active sex, I have never encountered a penis that was too large or too small for enjoyment. Some other characteristics made that difference and every couple has some positions that are better than others.

When you are on top the support you are giving yourself through your thighs is impeding your ability to squeeze around him and, for many women, they are spread too far to really enjoy it. You obviously get your clitoris on top of his pubic bone but, in so doing, are causing a looseness around you vaginal entrance.

[marija2m2]

i think when i am on top that my vag muscles to lossen up
I dont know so far its ok
but i am really starting to wonder am i sexually really happy
The sex it ok
but its not mind blowing I was wondering was it the size
or was I just expecting something else in my head
since this is my forst sexual partner
did I just make it in my head that sex would be mind blowing
since i have nothing to compare with I was wondering

I guess some more time will show

[LoveGems]

The size really shouldn't matter, its the way you use it that does.

If you don't find on top enjoyable, then try him on top but do various positions...

have you tried doggy, even with a smaller penis this should still be a good position.

Its just a matter of patience and finding out what works for both of you.

[browneyedgirl]

I don't feel much when I'm on top either... My bf is about 6 inches, and I haven't been with bigger guys, but on top is definitely my least favorite position. Doggy is the best in my experience.

[ChiliPepper]

I think if you have to ask that question, the answer is likely no.

If I was already questioning aspects of the relationship related to sex, I think it wouldn't bode well for the future.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Please learn how to write a coherent sentence.

Why are you dating an unskilled man? You should be dating as many men as you find attractive or interesting and learning more. His size is perfectly adequate. Your looseness (pfft) is also a non-issue. Both you need further study and practice and NOT just with each other.

Make sure you are using the birth control + condom safe sex protocol.

Because if you have to ask then he ISN'T making you happy.