Yet another teen problem !!!

[bad_boi_si]

Me and mine have been together around 15months and got together straight from leaving school at 16. I gotta admit i started messing up around 3 weeks into it when by total accident i got accused of messing around with other lasses, which i can understand her thinking considering i texted them and spoke on the phone to them alot and i did spent the most amount of time with them at college with her working. And i didnt expect it to get to the stage it got to, and god bless my gf she did forgive me and stay with me. Considering i never cheated on her. Im not going to get into details about the relationship after that as it mainly is the same as that, ( i can understand where she comes from seeing as before her i went for total different class of lasses from different backgrounds / lifestyles and did mess around alot with them etc....) but she is rather paranoid and that does have a big strain on the relationship. However all this was forgotten about or so i thought till recently we havn't been seeing eye to eye and had alot of arguements and it feels like sometimes i dont love her and i dont seem to feel any guilt about anything and seem to enjoy winding her up ( not in the wierdo / psycotic way ) but its like i keep testing her so to speak. But the past few days dragging into weeks. Ive got talking to alot of people id lost contact with before now and have been texting this certain girl alot, who is a little older than me. and me and her have been sending alot of pictures and that sort of thing and i have developed a little bit of thing for her and she feels the exact same way. But i do sometimes feel that i do still love my gf but sometimes i dont. Im not going to say that its all her fault and im not going to say its all mine either as I / She / We all know that, that isnt the case. But i dont know what to do.
I dont have a clue about what to do and i dont like putting her threw this , i dont want to say bye and i dont wanna carry on in this position either

[Brandye]

You are clearly not ready to settle down and there is nothing wrong with that. Be fair to both your "g/f" and yourself: break it off cleanly so that you can each get on with your lives. You will each have learned a lot from this relationship making it all worthwhile. End it; the only humane solution

[EvilEvilKitten]

She has NOT forgiven you - if she had, she would not be paranoid and you would not be continually testing her to see if she really had.

Sorry but this relationship is OVER!

MOVE ON, buddy!

[atomic]

I agree - it sounds like she the relationship is always going to fall back on her not trusting you (with a certain amount of good reason), and you interested in having a girlfriend, but also being a free agent with other girls.

If you don't want to be with her exclusively, you are doing neither of you any favours stringing her along.