Wife Possibly Masturbating while I sleep

[tlsjmsamsmms]

I have had numerous conversations with my wife about masturbating and she tells me she does about every 6/months. W have sex approx. 3 times a week. I tell her I do, but she will only admit to once about every 6/months or so.

I have a feeling that she does and that she is masturbating while I sleep in bed next to her. I try to fake sleep and see if she does. I turn the other way and make noises like I'm sleeping to trick her. Sometimes I think she may be, but can't see, so can't tell. Can women masturbate with their legs closed and rubbing slowly or do their legs have to be wide open and rubbing quickly? Can women masturbate and make little to no noise out their mouth?

I love my wife and it turns me on to think she might be masturbating. However, she will not admit it or just does not want to tell me for some reason.

[sera300]

Some can rub their legs together to stim the clit. Others need more direct stimulation. Ask her point blank & tell her it turns you on! And no not all make noises! Perhaps she is embarrassed?

[HardNgood]

Good gawd buddy,,,give her some space!!

[demonbuttercup]

I agree... she might just be embarrassed to say that she does. My b/f has never asked me but I don't openly say that I do it... just never really comes up. I touch myself in front of him during foreplay and stuff... so that part I am not shy about.
Maybe that is the only time she has to herself?!?
I know when my b/f works an earlier schedule.. like 8-5.. he mentioned that he doesn't really have any alone time to do it... but when he works later like 3-12.... then hes up way after I go to bed.

Just sometimes I guess people enjoy that "alone time" no matter what their sex life is like.

[Brandye]

Hard and Demon give you the straight stuff. None of your business. As long as she is with you three times a week, what difference does it make. Many of us are capable of masturbating while laying beside you awake and you will never know.

Why men are so hung up on our masturbation or orgasms I shall never fathom.

[RexyRay]

Heck my wife does and she dont always wait till i'm asleep to do it!! like wise I to masturbate whilst she is there, I find watching her a great turn on and she like to watch me cum when I do it.
I also like to watch whilst she uses a Vibrator, the imagination runs wild, by the way we have been married 34 years and can still learn something new

[EvilEvilKitten]

HEY this is something special just for her!
Why must you be busting in on this?
Give the lady her space!

[Yariome]

Agreed, be happy you get it three times a week. My girlfriend and I go once MAYBE twice a week depending on work/school/ and how tired we are. If she masturbates, awesome, if she really only does it once every 6 or so months that's not very uncommon. I'll masturbate sometimes 2-3x a week, some i'll go a month or two without just depends on life, and I have a very high sex drive.

Besides, she may not even do it that much, my girlfriend HATES touching herself, and like everyone else said. Masturbation is ALONE time, and EVERYONE needs alone time.

[eminatic]

i'm going to agree with HardNgood's response

[bruins76]

Yes, women masturbate all the time when you men are asleep. We can do it quietly & quickly.

As far as her not being honest about how frequently she does it, I don't know. Some people are insecure & weird about talking about that stuff. At least she admits to doing it verses some people saying they never do & really do.

Does it matter that she's doing this next to you? Why are you trying to catch her? Do you want to embarass her or try to join in? Perhaps if you masturbated around her so she felt comfortable doing it w/ you & join the fun?


Either way, if that is when she wants to masturbate, around you & when you're are "sleeping" let it be unless you want to join in the fun. Why push the subject w/ her?