making sex fun

[man88]

Im in a long distance relationship, and I will be seeing my girlfriend for the first time since I left in november. When we get together we want to really have fun because it will be a while untill we see each other again. Ive looked up some different positions to try, but I havent really had sucess when searching for some sex games and adventurous things to try. Any tips from anyone who has ever "spiced up" their sex would be greatly appreciated.

[sera300]

I really believe that no matter what you do, since not seeing each other since November, it will be an adventure. Getting re-acquainted again plus the tension of passion will run high! Tease her!

[Sweet Love]

I agree, I think just spending time together is special and memorable enough, since you don't see each other all the time. Do something romantic, take a bath or shower together, get some massage oil and give her a sensual massage, light candles so you can see each other during love making....get some champagne, tease each other, use some chocolate and whip cream in the mix....sex is fun, so much fun if you are spontaneous and you let things flow....Good Luck!!!

[curious_woman]

I'm in a long distance relationship too. I wouldn't worry so much, if you have the right chemistry you'll both be wet/hard even if you just touch each others arm. Just let loose and enjoy it.

The massage is a great idea, nothing makes sex better than being totally relaxed and comfortable!

[EvilEvilKitten]

Almost a year? Then you can expect some shyness. There will be a "getting re-acquainted" period.

Do this in this sequence: a big exuberant bear hug upon first sight - let it ALL out! Prove you are happy to see her - with BRIO! Kisses! this should overcome any initial shyness. Then throttle back a bit and get yourselves somewhere private. Plan on spending at least 4 hours on the following:

Massage (to overcome any lingering shyness) becoming erotic massage which then becomes body worship. Then manual stimulation, oral stimulation, oral with manual stimulation then intercourse where you caress first her G-Spot then the posterior fornix with the glans of your penis - back and forth making sure she orgasms each time. Then it is your turn to orgasm. Wait a bit to recover and then repeat.

Got it?
40 orgasms beats "whipped cream" any day!

[andreaxjean]

You might think I'm weird.. But I like sharing a bowl of ice cream with my guy and using the same spoon.. And kissing the chocolate off his lips. He likes it, and it turns me on to see him smile when I lick his lips for him.. Maybe you should try it with your girlfriend. Get a pint of fudge brownie cookie dough. It's delicious.

Also.. When my boyfriend and I are having sex.. we tend to change positions every 10-20 minutes. His favorite is doggy style, mine are missionary and when I'm laying on my tummy and he's on top of me.. I think its called rear entry. I love that last one. I think its very intimate. He can kiss/bite my neck (I love pain.. and he loves to hear me scream).. Also, I love eye contact while in the missionary or inverted missionary positions. Romance her!!

[Ducy]

Try close talking...just move in like your gonna kiss but dont just talk...youd be surprised how sensual talking about your time apart can get....and i gaurantee you that youll be going totally insane in a few moments....works for me whenever my girlfriend is having a bad day...calms her down and turns her mood into a scary animalistic...well not to scary mostly awesome lol.

[EvilEvilKitten]

If SHE thinks sex is fun - then sex with her will be fun.
If YOU think sex is fun - then sex with you will be fun.

Most of sex is in people's minds and it doesn't really matter what particular 'things' you do. It is the 'delightful romp' that matters whether that romp takes place in his shower or in his bed or in the back seat of my SUV on a starlit night. Approach sex with delight, ardor, glee, and a bit of mischief!

Do you see?

[redgold18]

EEK, I love your posts! I'm still new around here, but normally your posts are aligned very well with the way I (and my hubby) view sex...it's an adventure and it WILL be fun and enjoyable if you view it with that mindset. Just thought I'd give you some props!
With that being said, in that situation, I would want to be romanced and teased for as long as we both could stand it, and then when control is nowhere to be found, don't go looking for it.

[machine_rat]

Don't put too much pressure on yourself trying to memorize a book's woth of different positions. The last thing you want to do is end up pulling off a move that she finds painful/uncomfortable and risk ruining the moment. Go with the mood, don't force anything.

Give her loving reassurances of her personality and her body. Showing how much you missed her may very well end up being what she remembers most.