08-12-2007, 11:25 AM
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Alternative Lifestyle?
My wife and I have been married for fifteen years and have done just about everything that two people can do. After so many years and so much repitition, both of us are just plain bored. We have been debating various degrees of swinging and have not yet been able to reach any decisions one way or another. Has anybody else here engaged in this sort of thing? What are your views?
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08-12-2007, 12:30 PM
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If you do a search on this site you should find many threads which will provide you with answers you are looking for. Be certain you have a good solid marriage & good communication.
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08-13-2007, 09:31 PM
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I swing, my husband - who knows - does not choose to. Makes it awkward upon occassion but I can manage. You CANNOT be jealous or possessive when swinging. Remember that it is not the sex that's "sacred" but the bond between you two is "sacred". Lay down your ground rules beforehand and ABIDE by them. Do not take any drama into others' lives - we all have enough of our own as it is. Understand that as difficult as it is to get two people together - it is that much harder to get all four to buy in so tone down your expectations. In the swing world - women rule. Just accept it.
Relax, take it slowly, and see what develops. If you'd like more info - send me a private message.
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08-14-2007, 08:40 AM
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Kitten, im interested in your story. Why is it that only one member of your couple swings and the other doesn't ?
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08-14-2007, 09:03 AM
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He simply has no interest. One would have thought that, like most men, he'd jump at the chance but no. Apparently he feels that one Kitten is sufficient amusement.
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08-31-2007, 09:13 AM
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I'm against of swinging. It can destroy your relationships. It's better to have a break. Just live separate some time and be together only on weekends. It helps. Believe me. Every weekend is a holiday!!!
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08-31-2007, 10:13 AM
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Swinging is not for everyone but to say that it is guaranteed to destroy your relationship is false. change does not automatically = destruction.
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