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Old 08-02-2007, 11:13 PM
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My wife has always been a bit more interested in sex than average, and since she has gotten pregnant the hormones are changing and her libido is in hyper-drive. I've accepted the changes, but I've noticed a small quirk - she is extremely interested in her breasts. She's always like to touch and play with them, but now it seems that they're more sensitive. Occasionally I would help her to relax at night be massaging her breasts and shoulders to calm her down, but now touching her there has the opposite effect.

She likes light touches at first, but in the middle of sex when things get rougher she wants the touches and squeezes to get really hard and direct.

Is this just another change because of pregnancy, or are her sex habits changing?
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Old 08-02-2007, 11:42 PM
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She is about 12 weeks right? They tend to be very sensitive and can be slightly uncomfortable for some women due to hormone changes. I would think the grabbing maybe due to this light touch is too sensitive for her and a firmer touch is needed so it is comfortable. Glad you are back!
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In the early stages of pregnancy the female body is going through extreme and often random adjustments whereby she (and more-so you) may not understand her sometimes contrary needs/feelings/desires.

Don't worry about it; just accept that those factors may change over time and try to adapt to them. Good communication will (as always) help to keep you tuned in to her needs as the pregnancy develops.
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Old 08-03-2007, 02:47 AM
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Personally since I've experience 3 pregnancies, breasts are OFF LIMITS when pregnant, too sensitive. I can handle REALLY SOFT licking, that's it, otherwise I feel like I have knives in me. That's weird that your wife wants harsh play w/ them. Everyone's different I guess.
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Old 08-03-2007, 03:42 AM
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Pregnancy has profound effects, some of which will be long lasting. Enjoy!
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Old 08-03-2007, 06:12 AM
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Breast sensitivity is among the earliest, and most prevalent, of pregnancy symptoms. While all women vary a bit, it is most common that sex is not wanted until the morning sickness has passed and, then during the second trimester, sex is really wanted. During the third trimester, each woman is different and some creative positioning is needed.
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Oh, and I forgot to mention - she's going around topless more often at home.

You're correct about the morning sickness, because she wants sex only when she's not feeling sick. As the name says, it's usually in the morning and by lunch she wants it. Fortunately, sex is almost daily, and while she was always orgasmic I've noticed she seems to enjoy it more. Maybe it's just that she doesn't have to take pills or worry about pregnancy, or maybe there's increased blood flow to the region or something else.

Right now sex is limited to the kitchen for obvious reasons of cleanup.
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Old 08-03-2007, 09:21 AM
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It has a lot to do with hormones. A sense of "well being" and plenty of hormones work miracles for women.

I am not going to ask about the "clean up issue"...
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Old 08-03-2007, 04:40 PM
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To cure morning sickness - have her perform fellatio on you and this time SWALLOW because a medical study recently conducted in Great Britain found that this does in fact, although they are not sure why, cure morning sickness.

Worth a try.
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