Threesome?

[definetruth]

My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half now and recently we've been talking about having a threesome. We're both very sexual people and love to explore and try new things. We're very open with each other and talk about everything, sexual and otherwise.

I'm bi-curious and he's always had the 2 girls 1 guy fantasy and both of us think that this would be a fun thing to do. We're both clear that as of right now, it's a one time thing unless we both decide afterwards that we want to do it again.

I read some of the other threads on here about threesomes but I wanted to post my own anyway. I guess I'm just wondering what to expect. We've gone over some of the specifics so far and we'll definitely be going over ground rules and stuff a lot more thoroughly before we actually do this. I love my boyfriend very much and he loves me and we intend to get married once I finish school.

I'm not really sure what I'm asking here.. I guess just what your experiences were like, good and bad. What we should discuss ahead of time. The idea of it turns both of us on so much and we want to try and make sure that the reality of it will measure up to the fantasy. I thought that maybe we should take it slow and just find a girl who was willing to fool around a little bit before actually going for the full on threesome but I wasn't sure if that would be a good idea or not. Anyway any responses are much appreciated!

[Brandye]

I am not sure what you are asking either. Nothing differentiates your post from dozens of other threesome questions. Generally, those who want a threesome are looking forward; those who have had a threesome have mixed responses.

[EvilEvilKitten]

First of all: Reality is not always as good as Fantasy.
Secondly: You do not have to be bisexual to enjoy a 3-some.
Thirdly: A man has to have superb sexual skills to handle two women and even then it takes practice - so don't think you're just doing this once.
Last: if he gets his FMF - you must get your MFM

other than that - this has all been discussed before

[MoxieV]

Threesomes are awesome, if there are ground rules agreed upon first by all three. Some ground rules I'd want laid out (pun intended) are 1) no emotional attachment to said third party or by third party; 2) the main people involved are the couple (you two) and are most important. You do what's right by both of you or don't do it at all. If your relationship is solid and you're both solid people individually, you should have no problems. If one or both of you are remotely sensative or jealous types, don't even consider entertaining this idea. It will only blow up in your face and you'll lose each other with pettiness. 3) You've got to have trust. And not just with the two of you. You have to select the third person carefully and be able to trust them that they won't bend any rules.

Good luck. (btw, I know this stuff because I met my husband in a threesome and well...)