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Old 07-05-2007, 11:36 AM
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Hysterectomy

My wife had a hysterectomy a couple of weeks ago. We cannot have intercourse for 6 weeks. The only thing is my wife is really in the mood and she knows we can't have intercourse. We are looking for alternative solutions. Has anyone on here had a this problem or could give some tips? You would think she would be super sore from the surgery, but she seems to be doing good. She is not supposed to contract her stomach muscles. Thanks for any help.
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Old 07-05-2007, 11:39 AM
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I would not try it until the doc clears her after her post-op check up. Perhaps just do a little oral?
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Old 07-05-2007, 04:02 PM
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Medically, I recommend cold showers. Orgasm involves many muscles and can involve all muscles. Cool it. Sorry.
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Old 07-05-2007, 11:02 PM
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Perhaps just do a little oral?
Not on her. On you. As an alternative to the cold shower that is one solution is for her to include a hand job along with the oral.
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Old 07-05-2007, 11:10 PM
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Not on her. On you. As an alternative to the cold shower that is one solution is for her to include a hand job along with the oral.
Sorry, I should have clarified...
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Very difficult time for you both but those 6 weeks will pass. Then it is "game on"! Very happy to see that she's feeling "Freedom" because, there is , of course, another way of looking at it. Don't mention that to her - just rejoice with her in her new freedom.
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Old 07-12-2007, 06:52 AM
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Oral sex or dirty talk. It's the same amount of "waiting time" to have sex after you have kids. I am on my 3rd & I know the frustrations. I guess it's a matter of waiting, it's not that bad. I did give my husband plenty of oral pleasure as I knew I would rather have him "get off" w/ me than a stupid magazine, or porno...so we did that a lot.

Also... think of how you two got to know each other, perhaps this is a good time to revisit the reasons you love one another. Do dates, dinners, romance...cuddling. Love & lovemaking starts there, make it fun & before you know it you'll be past the 6 week mark & ready to reconnect on all levels.
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