No pleasure from anal ... Hi

[nurul]

I'm a female I tried anal sex several times and i didnt feel any pleasure or orgasm during it .Is that normal. and what can I do so I can have orgasm cause my partner enjoy it very much.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Women usually don't orgasm from anal sex. Women do not have a prostate, men do. If anyone should be receiving anal, it is the men.

[demonbuttercup]

Not everyone enjoys anal sex. Some women have trouble orgasming vaginally... which is where it's made to go... so anally is even harder. Even so you would need some sort of clitoral stimulation.

Do you orgasm from vaginal sex? Most likely if he wants anal.. and you are willing... then he'd need to get you off another way.. like orally or something.

[HardNgood]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Women usually don't orgasm from anal sex. Women do not have a prostate, men do. If anyone should be receiving anal, it is the men.

Pretty easy for you to say!!!!!!

LOL

[dancingdoc2]

Many people (men and women) who enjoy anal play, enjoy it as an adjunct to other caresses and do not want, need, or enjoy having a penis inserted--only a finger or toy. Even at that, because the outside of the anus is richly endowed with lots of sensitive nerve endings, it is not necessary to go inside. If one wants to involve the passageway and sphincters, also, then a finger can be inserted up to the first knuckle.

Please read this Sticky Post on the subject for more information.

"Playing Ball" and How To Tips for Prostate Massage

Although primarily written about men, the how-to and when information is relevant for the fairer gender as well.

I hope this is of help. Got questions?

[cjb1981]

Originally Posted by EvilEvilKitten

Women usually don't orgasm from anal sex. Women do not have a prostate, men do. If anyone should be receiving anal, it is the men.

Such a hater Why is it that "stick it up his ass!" is a "go to" for women that don't like anal? I personally love having anal sex with a woman (as the giver, not receiver). My currant girlfriend doesn't like the thought of trying it, so we haven't. If you don't like it, then stop.

[demonbuttercup]

It's a go to b/c for the women who don't like it.. it's usually b/c it tends to be painful. And for a guy... to relate to that "reason" should know what we are talking about when we say it's a discomfort.

And how Doc put it, for women, they might enjoy anal play right at the entrance... but not necessarily penetration. I don't care for anal but I enjoy a finger there every once in awhile.
And as for a man's anatomy... yes there is something there anally that can give them pleasure.

There are also women who love anal as much or more as vaginal. If you love it, then find a woman like that lol

[cjb1981]

Originally Posted by demonbuttercup

It's a go to b/c for the women who don't like it.. it's usually b/c it tends to be painful. And for a guy... to relate to that "reason" should know what we are talking about when we say it's a discomfort.

And how Doc put it, for women, they might enjoy anal play right at the entrance... but not necessarily penetration. I don't care for anal but I enjoy a finger there every once in awhile.
And as for a man's anatomy... yes there is something there anally that can give them pleasure.

There are also women who love anal as much or more as vaginal. If you love it, then find a woman like that lol

Demonbuttercup, I'm fine with not doing it, I mean it's great, but it's ok not to. All I'm saying is, if one person in the relationship doesn't want it, then it shouldn't happen. Either the couple agrees to not do it, or they start seeing other people who they are more compatible with sexually. But as far as "let me stick a dildo up your ass, and see how you like it!" seems kind of childish to me. That being said, I do understand what you're saying. Nurul, if you don't want to do it, they tell your guy that you just aren't interested. If that's a problem for him, kick him to the curb, and tell him to find another woman who does like it.

[EvilEvilKitten]

It may seem "childish" to you but it does make the point very, very clear.

BTW they do make vibrating anal probes and, yes, in fact, it does stimulate and improve a man's orgasm to no end! I do very well know whereof I speak having been turning men into puddles of quivering protoplasm through sexual overload for 39 years now. I do not hate men. I find them delightful and am more than happy to enjoy them and make sure that they have the time of their life!

Just leave my rump alone, thank you.

[sera300]

CBJ: The rudimentary point is some women love it, other's despise it for reasons such as pain. For those who find it very displeasurable an euphemism is "you take it first then see how I feel and then you can understand my dislike for such activity"!