the 3 pregnancy

[vingo]

We R Married Since 9 Year And We Have 2 Boys . Now Since 2 Weeks My Wife Told Me That She Is Pregnet Agine I Had Talk To Her To Abort But She Refused . I Don't Need To Hurt Here Feeling But I Feel Hurt My Self This Because I Do For Here Everything And When I Ask For Somthing She Did Not Now I Feel There Is A Big Wall Between Us And Our Sex Life Not Good At All . ( It Was In The Past Great And 4 Time Week And Dffrants Ways ) Now Everything Is Turned I Need To Help . Also I Can't Talk To Here I Can't Hurt Here Feeling And She Thought I Have A Work Preestion Om Me This Why I'm Away Of Her

[sera300]

I have no real idea what you are asking. You are angry b/c you r wife is pregnant a third time & will not terminate the pregnancy? And this affects your sex life? I think you both need some family counseling.

[vingo]

the problem i need help how i change my feeling to be like the past and how i can confirm this satution

[sera300]

Originally Posted by vingo

the problem i need help how i change my feeling to be like the past and how i can confirm this satution

Just accept it! You are having a new baby! Be happy, it all works well in the end!

[nottooblushing]

Abortion is not ****ing birth control!!!! If you didn't want more kids you should have gotten a vesectomy. How dare you demand your wife terminate a pregnancy because the sex is bad?!?!?! If I were your wife I'd be packing the other 2 kids up and leaving your ass and making damn sure you pay every penny of every pay check to support me and my three children who you would never see again.

I don't care what you have "do for her everything" you have no right to demand she get an abortion. It is HER decision 100%.

[Lovemonkey]

Originally Posted by nottooblushing

Abortion is not ****ing birth control!!!! If you didn't want more kids you should have gotten a vesectomy. How dare you demand your wife terminate a pregnancy because the sex is bad?!?!?! If I were your wife I'd be packing the other 2 kids up and leaving your ass and making damn sure you pay every penny of every pay check to support me and my three children who you would never see again.

I don't care what you have "do for her everything" you have no right to demand she get an abortion. It is HER decision 100%.

i agree, i suggest a vesectomy if you dont want anymore children. I find it unexcptable to ask her to get an abortion because you want her to. There is a little baby being developed. Think of your wife, your growing children, and this unborn child before you start demanding things. Your life should be about your children and wife at this point, not selfishlessly about you

[bruins76]

Are you kidding me??? You are married & want to have an abortion? How old are you? You don't have an abortion b/c you aren't willing/wanting or it's not a good time or money. You have that child & either deal w/ it or give it up for adoption. Jesus! Do you know how selfish that sounds? We have 3 kids & one on the way, technically we don't have much more room or money but heck, you find a way to make it work. You're old enough to get married, you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough to deal w/ the consequences of having a child (even if it's not planned). My advice is that if you don't want any more kids (which sounds like you don't)...get a vasectomy pal! Take care of yourself, be responsible for yourself. It take's TWO to make a baby.

[foxdan]

Children seemed to bring myself and my wife closer I have three and if I cold afford it I will have a whole football team
As she is pregnant you must remember that you wife has hormones that are gong wild