Anger

[Yariome]

Well as you guys have probably seen me and my girlfriend have been together for awhile. Yes we have our problems and always turns out to be great, but here and a blue moon every few months she gets REALLY angry over everything, and I don't know what it is. I don't know what to give information about to give you any suggestions of what it could be, I know she's not pregnant.

[curious_woman]

Anger management problems? Stress? Depression? Bi-polar? Sounds like some form of psychological problem but its really hard to go on with such little detail.

[Yariome]

Right, and I didn't know much detail of what to give. And yes I do believe it's a kind of bi-polar because she is really happy then if I joke about something she flips. Now I don't know if it's really just me being stupid or she really is just losing out of no where. And no she isn't very stressed, yes depressed but this has been going on for a bit (the anger issue). But it wasn't always like this probably only the last 8-10 months is when it started.

[curious_woman]

Take her to a psychiatrist/counselor. If she refuses to go, suggest a couples therapist; state that you're worried about her mood and only want the best for her and your relationship.

You can PM me if you don't want everyone to see the details, by no means am I a psychologist lol but I do a lot of reading, and I do happen to be a woman .

[sera300]

Have you ruled out medications? Is part of this perhaps precipitated by your insecurities? Much of what you are describing in her are VERY similar to what described in yourself a week ago or so.

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[Engage!]

Sounds a bit like my wife on one of her bad days. It might be a bipolar thing, and a counselor is a good idea. However, I have days like that too. Get some help, but mostly you just have to hang around and be patient until it blows over. I've figured out that my wife's emotional outbursts tend to start with anger, and then she'll end up crying. Figure out the cycle and it's causes and you'll be halfway to a solution.

[sera300]

Originally Posted by Engage!

Sounds a bit like my wife on one of her bad days. It might be a bipolar thing, and a counselor is a good idea. However, I have days like that too. Get some help, but mostly you just have to hang around and be patient until it blows over. I've figured out that my wife's emotional outbursts tend to start with anger, and then she'll end up crying. Figure out the cycle and it's causes and you'll be halfway to a solution.

Anger tends to be about the issue & the crying tends to be about the level of frustration.

[Sap]

I get really angry over small things too sometimes,
its generally where I let little things build up, and then I just explode, I think that seeing a counciler might be a bit extreme at the moment, Have you spoken to her about it? Does she know why she suddenly gets angry?

[LittleFury]

Some people can be like ticking time bomb. Tick tick tick, blow up (be really angry about things) Then go back to ticking. Unless her angre is distructive, don't be too worried. Or you could always seek some professional help

[EvilEvilKitten]

This is not acceptable behavior.
Adults without emotional control or with an explosive temperment make life hell for those around them.
Think of how kids would react to this.
(speaking from experience here!)

Either she gets help or you should walk.