Need advice??

[T-Man]

Im new to the board..so any helpful advice would be great..and if i have any advice to give ill be glad to share knowledge from my experiences.

My ? is if any older males(im 18) have experienced erection problems w/ new sex partners..and if so how they handled it? Iv had sex w/my ex plenty of times so im not new to sex. However, i have a new g/f and i really like this girl and when we attempted to have sex it jus would not wake up for the world, It reminds me of when i 1st attempted to have sex and it jus wouldnt wake up. Anyways, I would like to know how other males overcame this problem and what they thought was the reason for the limpness It was pretty emberassing my confidence is crushed..i laugh at it now but it was very sad b/c my girlfriend was soo disappointed.;

NE advice would be helpful..from males or females

THanx!

[sera300]

First I am not a man but have experienced the same issue with new partners. It's not uncommon and takes time. When you are comfortable and uninhibited it will work, just relax. And BTW, we do understand, when we get nervous we get a bit dry.

[learning]

Sera has got it. It is generally just anxiety, usually happens with a new partner as you may experience anxiety to perform. Fear of the unknown.

We generally fear dissapointing our new g/f due to lack of performance from prem ejac or similar that the anxiety causes erectile dysfunction.

If the problem persists, only then do you need to be concerned.

[EvilEvilKitten]

The answer is Relax, deep slow breaths and more foreplay!! Try body worship! If you do not know what that is, ask me privately. But this is a common problem. One is vulnerable during sex so one gets a trifle timid. After you two have been there for awhile and have developed some trust, you will not have this problem any more.