"Hook-up" buddy with ex? - need some advice here

[jayman1086]

is it a good idea to become a hook up buddy, aka **** buddy, w/ your ex like a month or so after you two broke up? i dont but i wanted some other people's advice.

[sera300]

Depends on the nature of your relationship when you were together. Love or just casual dates. Depends on how you felt about each other. Depends on why you split. To exemplify; my ex-fiance and I began talking, I asked him if he was interested in just some "casual sex" NSA. One night turned in to two, three, etc. Then we were back together, dating, and engaged again. Same issues came up again (although we promised it would be different since we missed each other). Split again! Another I just dated, nice guy, turned out to be a great friend (we wanted different things from life & he was 6 years younger then I) and it turned into a FWB & NSA no problems!

[Hubby55]

It may help both of you get over the proverbial hump for right now...
I have seen ex-couples who have been buddies for decades...

[tmps]

well maybe if its just casual sex with no feelings towards both people then why not, depends on how your relationship ended

[jayman1086]

well we slipt up cuz she said she wanted to take a break just for spring break, since we're both still in college, and i told her is we did me and her will be over. i dont think its a good idea since she i still has feelings for me and all.

[adcutey]

*sigh* of course you're glad you've got somebody to booty call whenever you want but it'll only work if there are no strong feelings between you both. If there are it could get messy when you decide to cut her off.

[girl12]

I am currently an FWB with my ex, I didn't think it would be do-able but it is! It really does depend on where you want it to go. Just remember it's hard to keep feelings out of that sometimes. If there are not mutual views and feelings involved, it usually doesn't work without someone getting hurt, and MAKE SURE there are no unrealistic expectations from either of you.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Sure! Go right ahead! Just don't get all 'territorial' and 'possessive' about her. You're both in college and this is supposed to be 'playtime' for you both! So play!