Porn for couples to watch together

[cmpeguy]

My girlfriend has always been somewhat against porn. She says she doesn't like it, but I am pretty sure she has never seen any. We have talked about it a few times, and she has agreed to watch a porn movie with me. I offered to let her pick out whatever movie she would be comfortable/interested in watching, but she wants me to pick it out because I know more about the subject. I guess what I am wondering is, what types/kinds of porn do women like watch? Any general gengres or specific titles that would be a good first porn for us to watch together to possibly get her more interested in it would be much appreciated.

[Ephemera]

Nothing hardcore, obviously.

One thing you might want to consider is how the girls act or look in the movie. Again, obviously you don't want to make her uncomfortable, but also you don't want to make her feel like she can't match up to the actresses.

I'm sure others will have specific titles...

[conors]

Yep, definitely nothing hardcore! You don't want to put her off!

[demonbuttercup]

Maybe just start out w/ those movies on Skinemax late at night... just some softcore stuff...then work your way up.

And be prepared that she might not like it at all... I mean sometimes I have seen it more for the "shock value" or mainly curiosity rather than the turn on value... I'll be thinking OMG gross! or can't believe she did that LOL.

[tmps]

i like to watch anything with class in it, not anything tacking
i know its hard to find that in porn but when you do it makes such a difference

[Matador]

Have you ever watched the movie "9 orgasms"? It's not a full hardcore film more like soft porn, most of it is about sex with a storyline, the way women like it. You can look for it at Blockbuster although I'm not sure if it is an American or European movie. I highly recommend it, my wife doesn't like porn too much but that movie made her horny that night.

[Say Hey]

I know that there are some porn movies out there that are directed by women with women in mind. They are stylistic and have a plot to them. The sex is not hardcore. They are more like a romance novel come to life. I am not exactly sure of the titles bc my wife will nto watch any porn. I would suggest going to an upscale adult bookstore and just ask.

[happilymarrieds]

I don't struggle with the porn movies but my DH does {BIG TIME} with haunting dreams etc. Out of courtesy and love for him neither of us do the porn thing. After all as much as sex is about meeting your needs it is about meeting her needs as well...
However he enjoys "tools" and experimenting with different games and things

[Orow]

There are "Pirates" which is a rip-off from "Pirates of the Caribbean"-films. You can get it both as soft porn and as regular porn. But the animations are hilarious and ugly made - be warned.

There's also "Constance" with is pretty romantic made - I like it.

You can google the titles and find a shop that sells them. Otherwise, you can always send an e-mail to the shops and ask for advise: It's not just gross men sitting there, but people like you and me just wanting to sell stuff. So they can guide you through their products.

[Laika]

Maybe try with more erotic movies first? Tinto Brass maybe - that is quite soft. Erotica is not porn, maybe she meant she didn't like hardcore only? Many women find that tasteless and "too much".