Trouble orgasming

[OpalineTowers]

I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. I have never been able to orgasm during sex. On my own, I am unable to orgasm without intense vibration. Does anybody else have this problem? Any ideas on how to deal with this?

[sera300]

Here is a good place to start:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_...me_orgasm.html

If you read through many of the threads on this site many have the same issue. Brandye also gives some good statistics on how many women can have an orgasm and how many never have. Look through the site and you will find it.

Here it is:

http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/plea...ed_godiva.html

[OpalineTowers]

Thanks. So basically, time and practice. I can do that.

[sera300]

Yes, that's it. Maybe leave the vibrator off for awhile and work on pleasure from different touches or stimulus.

[OpalineTowers]

Okay. Thanks for your help.

[EvilEvilKitten]

Relax. Give yourself permission to enjoy sex. Breathe deeply. Allow yourself to FEEL. Take your time. AND never stop at just the one orgasm- continue until you have 10 or so. Have your condomed and lubed up boyfriend caress your G-Spot with the head of his penis and tell him to just keep on caressing it until you do have 10 orgasms. It is an AMAZING experience!