How do I get over this?

[tomcat]

Gee I feel like a teenager asking all these questions. The last time 4 days ago, that I started to give hubby oral sex, (which remember I love) he wanted to do the same to me at the same time. Okay we did, but 1 I started to cum what seem right away, so I pulled away, 2 something about him giving me oral sex just seems to bother me. I don't really know why, so I guess my question is---does anyone of you wonderful people have any ideas for me? He really seems to enjoy doing it to me, like he asked me, what is the difference between me with him and him with me? Help. I don't want to give up going down on him, I guess is how it is put. thanks

[sera300]

To your first answer if it's not something he regularly does to you you may reach orgasm faster. To your second question about it bothering you; were you ever with someone who did not like it? Or do you feel it's dirty? Obviously it's something you enjoyed but why you have difficulty letting him perform it on you; perhaps you are not entirely comfortable? Many women get inhibited about the "smell" and their partner may not find it pleasurable for this reason? Just guessing.

[coveresid]

I think you need to realize that he probably loves giving oral sex as much as you. There could be some hesitation due to what is percieved as smell, the vulva not very attractive, or maybe it is dirty. Just realize that it really is so enjoyable for your hubby to be able to do this. I just love the taste and texture of giving oral to my wife. I like the close-up view and could give it every day if she would let me. I like the fact she shaves her pubic hair and keeps a nice trimmed little patch. I like how good it makes her feel and it lets her relax and really get into sex. During oral is the time I can guide her hand down and have her finger herself while I continue to use my tongue or it gives me a chance to take a break and just enjoy the show. Just watching her rub herself and work her two fingers up in her is a total turn-on for me. Hopefully you can get over this hesitation and lay back and enjoy him pleasuring you this way. Good luck with it.

[EvilEvilKitten]

As much as you enjoy going down on him - so too does he love going down on you! Why deprive both him and yourself this pleasure? Shower together, have him begin body worship, and then get to it!