little help?

[kpodo]

my gilfriend and i have been trying a long distance relationship since the new year started. she went back to finish college and i told her that if we made it through the next two years i would marry her. she was supposed to move back her after she finished but since she has been back she says she is happy there and thinks she will stay. her family is there and its where she grew up and i understand that. i know alot ccan happen in two years but im 34 and i told her i didnt think i could wait two years without any garauntee she will move back. i cant move there and she knows this. i love her but i got to let her go. my problem is how do we stay friends. should we? we will both move but what happens when one of us gets in another relationship? should we not talk or just deal with it? we truley are great friends so this really sucks. what should i do???? btw blades of glory is funny as hell!!!!

[tmps]

its hard to be friends after a serious relationship and it would be hard. but after time it would get easier. personally i dont stay in touch with my ex's coz it was too painful. and we both changed.
but then again some people are the best of friends. so it really depends