Does a married man really like?

[tomcat]

I've asked this before, but I need to know again. My hubby and I have been married almost 27 years. I found out a year and half ago from him, even tho I had a strong idea. That he had sex with my now ex-sister-law, they were both drunk, him very, she to this day would do anything to break us up. Now to my question---In the last oh 6 months I've started performing oral sex on him, he seems to like it, I LOVE it, a few nights ago, I swallowed, and he liked it again I loved it. But since then he seems to have been pre-occupied and doesn't seem to want to touch me. He has a young, pretty widow woman in his department, I've meant her, oh yeah she seems nice, but I worry. Maybe I'm just wanting to be told that all this is normal, or something. Yes he can still get me horny without me doing the oral thing, maybe not as much right off. Also am I weird for enjoying so much? thanks

[sera300]

You give a lot of background info. for a simple question. No, you are not abnormal many women get a major turn on & horny just giving a BJ.

As for the rest, ask him point blank what's happening (which is why I assume you included it).

Do I think his behavior is odd? Yeap.

[foxdan]

Ask him straight out point out to him that you have noted he has lost interest and it is a concern of yours, just don’t bring up the past

[learning]

What you are willing to and do do for your husband is what gets alot of guys to "wander" in the first place.....looking for someone who will as it is not often done at home.

I find his reaction really peculiar but it may not be in reaction to this. Maybe there are additional stresses at work, other areas which has resulted in the lack of interest. Tell him how you like doing it to/for him, tell him the effect it has on you. Talk to him about his "change" with regard to sex, it may very well be something totally unrelated.

[coveresid]

The fact that you love it so much is not weird, but actually is very good. It does seem a little strange that your hubby is now not as interested in recieving. There could be many reasons why and you may need to just ask him or tell him how much you enjoy oral and swallowing and would like to do it more often. I would love that from my wife. He may just be hesitant if this is a new thing. I know I was hesitant to cum in my wife's mouth for a long time. When I did cum many years ago, she didn't like it and so I was nervous about ever doing that again since I still wanted oral and she seemed hesitant to even give oral since she was afraid I might cum in her mouth again. That has changed and she is willing to give me oral now. Usually won't finish me with oral, but every once in a while she just keeps going and so I warn her when I'm getting to the point of cumming. Sometimes she just keeps sucking on my penis so I let it happen and cum in her mouth. She will sometimes swallow, other times she will just spit it into a towel or tissue. Other times she will mount me and have me cum in her vagina. Either way is fine with me.

[princess_j2006]

Ask him flat out if he enjoys the act or not; or if there is something bothering him that he would like to talk about. I don't think there is a man out there that doesn't enjoy oral (ok, maybe that's a bit of an exaggeration). I don't think you'r e weird, and there is nothing wrong with liking to give oral sex - and I think you're every man's dream (suck and swallow). Just talk to him - it might be something else that's bothering him.

[smiles5839]

Of course he likes it. All men do, and my wife loves to suck me. And to have me fill her throat and let her swallow. But if i do cum, she gets so hot she wants me to **** her immediately. So I usually pull away when i start getting real hot. But once in a while i can't resist letting her finish me. She also sometimes likes to use her vibrator while she sucks me. That REALLY gets me hot. It's difficult to not pull away and to keep from coming before she does.
Either way, when she's done, i climb on and she climaxes again, with me.
She's terrific! By the way, i always make her climax 3 or 4 times before i let myself.

[argekay]

To those who posted that all men love oral sex-
I could take it or leave it. While pleasurable, I can't orgasm while receiving it. I however love to give oral!

[EvilEvilKitten]

1. congrats on 27 years

2. no, you're not weird for enjoying fellatio

3. so there's a lovely woman in his office? BFD?

4. If you're feeling insecure, try talking to him instead of leaping to conclusions.