03-24-2007, 02:00 PM
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No Oral Sex-HELP!!!
I really love my husband of three years, but he will not give me any oral sex and that up sets me a great deal. He likes to control what we do or don't do in bed.I want to try something different.I have performed oral sex on him many times,and now i can't do that anymore because i want him to give it to me in return.We always do the same position in bed. We hardly ever change positions during sex.I masturbate because im not getting what i desire from him in bed.Please Help!!!!!
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03-24-2007, 05:27 PM
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Stop giving to him until he reciprocates. Simple as that. Take some initiative, and change positions yourself - just talk to him. Nothing will fix itself - you have to do something, or remain miserable.
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03-25-2007, 03:01 AM
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I think you have to tell him straight up. I believe issues where one partner dictates what will/will not be done in bed is more of an emotional issue then sexual one. Put differently, giving/allowing pleasure to the other person is trying something they like rather then being selfish all the time. I am assuming oral was part of your relationship before? If not, it just may be he does not like it? As far as "one position only" in bed? That has to become boring and his controlling behavior will cause resentment over time. I am assuming that sex was not always this way between the two of you? You should not have to resort to masturbation for fulfillment; if he is not willing to hear you or discuss the topic, since you are left having to masturbate, I would not have sex until he was ready to talk. All he is doing is getting himself off with no care or concern for you.
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03-26-2007, 12:24 PM
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Talk with him! If that doesn't work, cut him loose. Next time, do not marry a sexully incompatible man.
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03-26-2007, 08:10 PM
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I feel that is not fair, when I first started going out with my man, we were both VIRGINS and never did no oral so we were both like EWW THATS GROSS then he got the guts to try it, i didnt want to kiss him aftyer or nothing, though i did give him head, then we enjoy it now we kiss after and all that
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03-27-2007, 07:09 AM
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These two aren't virgins and they've known eachother for a while now.
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